Boyfriend saved my life and is now handicapped. Should I stay with him?
Q. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It almost sounds unreal, but he saved my life about one month ago. He pushed me out of the way from getting hit by an oncoming car, but he was badly injured. Right now, ...
A. 26 December 2010: I think you should stay with him. He saved your life!
Dont break his heart. He saved you from the car because he loves you and wants to be with you. You're not really thinking of breaking up with him ARE YOU???... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend about getting raped and being pregnant and he wants me to help raise the baby!!!!
Q. Okay, I'm 14. My boyfriend (who's 13) and I are really close, so we tell each other everything. One day, I saw him talking to his friend, who I SWEAR was hitting on him (she was touching him and everything)!! So I (obviously) got upset... I didn't ...
A. 24 December 2010: Why would you lie to him?? And even if you wanted to, why on earth would you lie to him ABOUT THAT?? Out of all the lies in the world, why would you PICK THAT ONE?? When he saw you crying you should have just told him the truth. He would h... (read in full...)
Does he still like this girl?
Q. the other day was my mates birthday and I was about to post on his wall when I saw a post by this girl who he swears he doesn't like but talks about her all the time and flirts with her. But she told him she liked him when all his friends were round ...
A. 23 December 2010: Yup. He likes her! :)
Merry Christmas!! ... (read in full...)
Do I like this guy or not? I'm so confused!
Q. Oh God, Do I Like This Guy or not?? Im so confused!! First things first, I'm 16 and really tall, 5 foot 11 inches, to be precise, and he is 6 months younger, but also 6 inches smaller than me. Yesterday, I had some friends round for the night...
A. 23 December 2010: You like him MORE than a friend. You totally go girl! Dont let height be an issue.
Height is never the issue when it comes to romance. RA!... (read in full...)
Feeling so guilty. I was drunk and did stuff with a friend
Q. Okay so, two nights ago, I got drunk. But not over my head drunk, I still had a bit of consciousness intact. I was at a party and one of my guy friends, who I'm fairly close with, offered to take me home. I let him since it wasn't the first time. Bu...
A. 23 December 2010: YOU ARE SO YOUNG! You need to STOP AND THINK girl! You're only 13!
You shake it off by just stopping! Dont let him be all up in your face. Get away from him! He'll only do you bad!... (read in full...)
Is he being unfaithful to me already?
Q. I met a boy out in town a few weeks ago. He says he likes me and wouldn't ever mess me about. But he gives mixed signals all the time. One day he didn't stop texting me. And didn't stop telling me how much he likes me Then the the next day he didn...
A. 23 December 2010: End it. He's a messer. A joke! A person who'll snag ya around the neck! You gotta confront him and tell him how you feel. You got feelings girl. Show it!!
Xxo... (read in full...)
Time to move on and forget about her?
Q. So a friend of mine (lets call her "Amy") and I started talking to each other 8 months ago (April), after being only distant friends for a over 4 years. We were really flirty, and really enjoyed talking to each other and going on walks together. ...
A. 23 December 2010: Damn! Amy doesnt know what she wants! She's so confused! She needs to sort herself out.
But I have a feeling that she's probably deeply in love with the other guy than she was with you. So that made her date the other guy.
One day she'll talk ... (read in full...)
My husband is talking like he is single!
Q. Hi, my husband is now in another country doing some bussines...I talked with a friend of him, and he told me: "Your husband sounds very happy there..he doesn't want to come back..he saids over there is a paradise..and he wants me to come there and I ...
A. 22 December 2010: Well you need to act fast. You gotta try your hardest. He sounds like a dishonest man. Think about it. An untrustworthy man in an area full of women without his wife! Oh what could HARDLY GO WRONG???? :S
The best idea you could possibil... (read in full...)
My husband is talking like he is single!
Q. Hi, my husband is now in another country doing some bussines...I talked with a friend of him, and he told me: "Your husband sounds very happy there..he doesn't want to come back..he saids over there is a paradise..and he wants me to come there and I ...
A. 22 December 2010: It looks like your relationship is falling apart.
You gotta do something quick. I dont wanna say it but i have a feeling he's becoming bored of you. (I'm not trying to be bad)
The way he's acting as if he's single looks as if he wants another... (read in full...)
I say I love him, but does he really love me?
Q. So, I'm 15 and I've been with this boy (he's 16) for about 4 months now. And I know that I really care for him and I love him but I know i'm not IN LOVE with him. he tells me he loves me and I say it back. but I always wonder if he really does love ...
A. 22 December 2010: Oh come on girl! You're only 15. Either way, you cant fall IN LOVE. Thats impossible!
Anyways, I dont think he really means it when he says "I love you" He just says that because thats what you're suppose to say in a relationship.
So dont... (read in full...)
How should I handle the crush I have on my boss?
Q. Short story: I have a crush on my boss. How should I handle it? Long story: I have been working with a new boss for some time now, about 2 months. We work in retail together and I always have a lot of fun working with him. We joke around and make ...
A. 22 December 2010: Oooh girl crush crush! ;P You're in the twist of love :D
I totally understand what you mean. But it is true. You gotta make sure your feelings for him stay within you or both of you are BOUND to LOSE your jobs.
You like him + He likes you = B... (read in full...)
Help her to deal with my past...
Q. Hello! I'm new here and looking for some advice. To start, let me fill you in on my past. I am a 23 year old female living in the south. I grew up around a lot of drugs and sex was glorified in my family. I didn't really have any rules at all and ...
A. 20 December 2010: I cant imagine her NOT dealing with it.
She needs to get on with life and stop remembering the past and start looking into the future. I have to agree that it is hard to touch a dirty soul-mate, but there's always a saying: FORGIVE AND FORGET AND ... (read in full...)
Would a man show up at my place just for friendship or is there any hope he's gonna ask me out eventually?
Q. I'm 30 and there's this colleague of mine I met in Sept whom I really really fancy. Anyways, he's 40 and the other day he asked me for my address saying he'd show up to say hi one day. Tonight he showed up, totally unannounced, with a box of choco...
A. 20 December 2010: Hell yeah! There is hope that there is more than just FRIENDSHIP! HE LIKES YOU!.
He was too scared to make a move. NOW ITS YOUR TURN! :)
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Diamonds are a girl's best friend???
Q. I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me, we have an amazing connection and we are best friends. He even says that I am his perfect match and he truly wants to marry me in a few years. He had one very serious relationship before me (they lived ...
A. 19 December 2010: OH COME ON GIRL! Its ONLY diamonds! Dont get jealous over diamonds!
It doesnt matter if he doesnt buy you gifts. I'm sure one day he'll do something nice for you. Even better than diamonds! :P
You're not gonna end a one year relationship wit... (read in full...)
Will she still have thoughts about me?
Q. I'm in love with a girl for 2.5 years, but she is attached with her bf for about 5 years now. Initially, she didn't like me but after a year, she started having feelings for me because her bf is emotionally abusive and very possessive too and she ...
A. 19 December 2010: Ooooh thats hard. Well there's only ONE THING to do. You must WAIT.
Wait for her to text you again. DO NOT text her back or you'll only make matters worse. WAIT for her to think it over and let HER TEXT YOU BACK.
If you see her around somep... (read in full...)
Three guys and a girl...
Q. Merry Christmas to all! Ok lemme give you a history lesson. My friend 'Andrew' has been a good friend of mine for five years and i have liked him for that long also and he finally figured out that i like him. Now my guy friend 'Randy' are in a ...
A. 19 December 2010: You're in a relationship with Randy and you wanna have another guy's BABY??
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!?
If you really like the guy with the baby then you should totally end the relationship with the other two.
The other guy that finally realize... (read in full...)
Am I looking too much into this dream?
Q. Hey it's SFL (15yo) back with yet another problem that I would like to be helped with, if you don't mind. A few months back I got out of a horribly ending relationship. It took a little while to get over it but then I started to like one of my close ...
A. 17 December 2010: Ah come on! Its only a dream! I had a dream that I went to school holding hands with a boy that I liked. But I KNEW that was never gonna happen. Forget the dream! Dreams trick people all the time, dont you know?
She's having a child! If things d... (read in full...)
I cheated on my childhood sweetheart!
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship wth my wife for 15 years now and we were kinda childhood Sweathearts,, We got together when I we were young, She was 17 and I was 21.. We have had fun times and good times and she is Loyal and trustwrthy and p...
A. 17 December 2010: You shouldn't have cheated on her in the first place!
But anyways.... You cant JUST get bored with her. Thats terrible! She's probably a really nice woman. Shes not boring. Your mind is playing games with you.
You said you broke up with he... (read in full...)
I want to leave my boyfriend for my best friend!
Q. Well...i have been carrying this burden for too long, so here goes. I was in a relationship for 9 months when i cheated on my boyfriend. Why? Because i was in an emotionally abusive relationship....because i was weak to walk away. I kisse...
A. 17 December 2010: Oh my gosh what are you waiting for!? Forget your so called boyfriend and go out with your best friend!!!! Your best friend seems like a nice civilized person but dont be mean if you break up with your so called boyfriend. Be nice and tell him that ... (read in full...)
Birthday blues...
Q. My bf of almost one year didn't bother to give me so much as a card for my birthday. He did take me to dinner, and this isn't a money issue. I went all out for his birthday six months ago. I still can't get over feeling really hurt, should I ask ...
A. 17 December 2010: BOYS WILL BE BOYS. They dont care about tiny birthday cards or presents. They want something big for their lovers like for instance: A DINNER.
He had dinner with you. Thats great! Even though he doesnt care about your birthday HE STILL LOVES YOU.... (read in full...)
Is he simply playing games?
Q. There's this guy I started developing feelings for were both the same age 19, I'll be 20 in a few weeks. We met in this internet-chat thing about 5 years ago. But we talked for a few months then stopped. He found me again on Facebook, I added him. ...
A. 17 December 2010: Well maybe he's right. Maybe he IS busy. OR maybe your irritating him because you continuously keep contacting him! Just chill girl!
GUYS WILL BE GUYS. When their stressed they keep it all in and they start to become tricky to talk to or understa... (read in full...)
He doesn't talk to other girls when I'm not around.
Q. There is guy in my class who looks at me a lot but doesn't talk to me as he talks to other girls in class. My friends says that he only talks to girls in front of me. If I don't go to school or miss my class then he doesn't talk to other girls like ...
A. 17 December 2010: DUH!! He totally LIKES you! He wants you to get jealous by him talking to other girls!
If you like him then ask him out. I'm sure he'll totally be so happy.... (read in full...)
I love my best friend with all my heart but he doesn't feel the same
Q. So whats been going on is i love my best friend. i really love him with all my heart, more than i could ever express in words. but, he doesnt feel the same.. i have talked to him about it, he said im too much like a brother to date.. We have had sex ...
A. 17 December 2010: Confront him. Tell him how you feel and that you cant get over him. But if he doesnt like you as a bf and only sees you as a 'brother' then you shouldnt push him onwards.
He'll only leave you if you do!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend isn't comfortable with our relationship!
Q. hi i am a 28 year old divorced women with a 6 year old son, i left my husband 3 years ago and have since been in a relationship with another women for 2 years, a had been with other women before her but this is my first gay relationship, she is 23 ...
A. 16 December 2010: You said you have a six year old son. How does he feel about it? Does he even KNOW about it?
Not trying to be bad but he IS your son. I'm sure he'd want a proper family. If that woman isnt interested in the relationship then leave her. Dont pus... (read in full...)
I don't know what to say to him or even about how I feel!
Q. In my group of friends I am normally the one that sorts out the problems but I will be the first to admit that I am rubbish at solving my own. Mainly because I think it takes someone with a clear head and someone that doesn't know you personally ...
A. 16 December 2010: Well you should say "I fancy you. I know you like me and you know I like you. Lets grab a bite"... (read in full...)
Am I weird?
Q. people make me feel a bit weird just because iv never had a boyfriend or done anything with a boy and its starting to get to me. i want to know if anyone thinks this is weird too. (I'm 18 if you're wondering) ...
A. 16 December 2010: ah hold on! Ya aint weird. Your life is only starting!!... (read in full...)
I don't know what to say to him or even about how I feel!
Q. In my group of friends I am normally the one that sorts out the problems but I will be the first to admit that I am rubbish at solving my own. Mainly because I think it takes someone with a clear head and someone that doesn't know you personally ...
A. 15 December 2010: YOU NEVER TOLD US IF YOU ACTUALLY FANCY HIM!
If you do like him more than just a friend then go out with him! Its your choice. Who cares what your friends say. If ya like him, JUST GO OUT WITH HIM. Give the dude a chance!
Xxo *smiles* ... (read in full...)
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