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... Send *ouge a private message | | | *ouge's profile:Sup guys. I'm here to tell you guys the truth that i see, no maqtter which way. Sometims ppl need some bad advice *so to speak* to wake them up(like a slap in the face). But i will tell you guys if you have a problem that you need to talk about but privtly pm me. I am now 19 and in my 1 year on here i just start anwsering questions because i did not use this site for a long time. I just need to find out how to change my age. Any way all i can say is it is best to be honest to ppl. So that is exactly what i do. I mean i am honest with my girl and we will have been together 1 year on Feb. 12. But if you r going to ask me if you should leave an abosive relationship i will just tell you to *f* off that anwser is obvious. cheers ;) |
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Concerns about foreplay!
Q. Ok im just going to state my concerns right away. I have met this girl like 3 monthes ago long distance. WE talk something like 6-8 hours a day. I am going to go see her in december. My problem is that my ex did certain stuff that she does not ...
A. 23 July 2011: Thx man i think this is gonna help me alot.... (read in full...)
Why do I hesitate in making the moves on this girl I like?
Q. Hey guys i have a question that i have thought on and i just can't seem to find the answer. There is this girl that i have known for about 8 years and for some reason i just can't stop thinking of her for the last couple of weeks. I have not seen ...
A. 1 July 2011: Yeah i found someone else its long distance but she is everything. While the other girl turned out to no longer be who i thought she was.... (read in full...)
She's lied about her virginity so I don't trust her
Q. I have been dating my girl friend for three years now and she has lied to me about her viginity for two years i love her and i cant live without her but i dnt trust her anymore what should i do please help ...
A. 27 January 2011: Ask her. If her reason is reasonable, then give her a second chance. If it is not, then leave. Once a liar, always a liar. Cheers ;) ... (read in full...)
She's putting my business and size out there!
Q. ok well i am a 15 year old boy. i had an ex-girlfriend that i did a lot with. Wasn't much just a hand job a fingering. well she seen my penis. and i am only about 3 inches long. We broke up and now she is putting my business out there. Everyone ...
A. 27 January 2011: Well all I can say is that you can tell everyone that apparently she liked it enough to hop right on, so you must be damn good. God Bless you man. Pm me anytime. Cheers ;)... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps saying we'll have alone time and then invites his friends along!
Q. I love my boyfriend with all my heart ...but lately we've been fighing so much and its makes me unhappy...he always asks me to go round his to watch a movie and he says its just gonna be me and him.. but then he tells me his mates are coming to and ...
A. 27 January 2011: No, it does not. What it sounds like is you're becoming his door mat. Cheers ;)... (read in full...)
Why is he always talking about how he likes girls with dark skin when he is in a relationship with me?
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. He is 34 I'm 19. Another thing that I don't understand is that he likes dark skin girls but I'm light skin. He likes girls with a big butt and curvy but I have boobs and skinny. He likes girls with no ...
A. 27 January 2011: Its nothing personaly to you. He is a guy and he will always be looking at other girls. Just be happy with him and enjoy it. If you really want you could start talking about how you like guys with this or that. Cheers ;) ... (read in full...)
Help with gf's violent ex partner
Q. Please help, my “GF” has come out of a very violent relationship of 8 years after a particularly bad beating from her ex-partner (the bruises were awful) she decided to leave him me and her have been getting on well for a long time as friends she ...
A. 27 January 2011: You could try to be more loving(if thats possible). Take her somewhere and show her how it means to be treated right. If not let her go back to her ex. Because you can't try to keep someone or something that does not want to be kept. Or you could ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my girl friend for being ungrateful?
Q. I want a break from my Girlfriend because she returned a gift I bought for her. I love her and have been with her for 4 years, This is the first terrible thing she ever done to me! Must I forgive her? She returned a cellphone and wanted a blackbe...
A. 27 January 2011: Hey man we all make mistakes but it sounds like she is spoiled. Tell her the you will help pay for it and if she does something else like this then *hit the road*. Cheers ;) ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps saying we'll have alone time and then invites his friends along!
Q. I love my boyfriend with all my heart ...but lately we've been fighing so much and its makes me unhappy...he always asks me to go round his to watch a movie and he says its just gonna be me and him.. but then he tells me his mates are coming to and ...
A. 27 January 2011: I agree with Aunt Honesty, you need to set some ground rules. If he does love you like you love him then he will be willing to meet in the middle and spend time with you. Tell him that if he does not start spending time with you then he does not ... (read in full...)
Help with gf's violent ex partner
Q. Please help, my “GF” has come out of a very violent relationship of 8 years after a particularly bad beating from her ex-partner (the bruises were awful) she decided to leave him me and her have been getting on well for a long time as friends she ...
A. 27 January 2011: Hey man i'm 19 now a few years younger then you and my friend had the exact same problem as you. What he did was met the *ex* and told him that she had left him and to move on. That work for about 6 months until his next girl left him then he ... (read in full...)
I used up all my ideas in my last gift. Now I need new ideas please to fill the Valentine box for my bf?
Q. I have painted and decorated this heart shaped box for valentines day for my bf. I don't know what to put inside though. I got rid of all the special things like cinema tickets, train tickets to see each other etc etc in the last gift I made him ...
A. 27 January 2011: I agree wih caring guy. But make sure you use protection unless your trying to get pregnet. cheers ;) ... (read in full...)
I broke my best friend's trust! How do I get it back?
Q. i am dating a girl and her sister is my bestfriend . her sister told me about a boy who she is dating and told me not to tell it to my girlfriend .but i had to tell it cause my girlfriend forced me and now i broke my bestfriends trust i cant even ...
A. 26 January 2011: Tell her you are sorry but more importantly show her. Fine something that you can trust her wiht and tell her not to tell anyone. Show her that you still trust her and in time she may begin to trust you again. cheers ;) ... (read in full...)
I always helped him out and now it feels like he's deserted me!
Q. i think theres something wrong with me. i worked with a guy for the last 2 years and i know from the start i had feelings for him. he was in a bad way with work and everything so i took on the role of being his ' angel' if you like and got him back ...
A. 26 January 2011: Tell him how you feel about you guys. If he feels the same way he will push things. If not then girl you have to move on. cheers ;) ... (read in full...)
My extremely irritating roommate is getting on my nerves...what do I do?
Q. Last semester I had asked one of my friends to become my roommate for this semester. However, so far it has not been a good start between us even though she believes its all good. I think the problem I have is that our friendship is not really a ...
A. 26 January 2011: Im in colage right now and i had a room do things similar and i told her the rules. She did not like it so i told her i would move out, when she said no i told her to move out then. When she did not budge i had the collage move her out. I am much ... (read in full...)
Help me, I'm pregnant!
Q. Hi My boyfriend and i been dating for 2 years im 6 months pregnant and ever since i got pregnant we've been fighting alot. First of all our biggest issue we have we aren't financially stable at all. I work 45 hours a week and my boyfriend doesnt ...
A. 26 January 2011: Well girl i help alot of girls in your postion and i will tell you no matter how much you fight if he loves you he will be there. Second if you KNOW he is cheating then get out of the relationship, go to someone who will help you. Because if he is ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend of 8 years pushing me away?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years this year, last year he went through a tough time at work he lost his job as a manager and now works on the floor where he managed but only temporary until later this year, then hes out, he was very ...
A. 26 January 2011: Hey girl, sorry to hear that. He is probely just depessed due to the fact that he cant support you or be is worry that you will leave if he is not able to support you so if if i were you i would do my best to reasure him ad if he continues tell him ... (read in full...)
She wants to have the wedding after he graduates, he's worried she will cheat!
Q. Hello, My friend is having a problem about her fiancee. They both are in college but my friend is graduating in a year and her fiancee is graduating in four. She wants to tell him that she wants to have the wedding after he graduates but ...
A. 26 January 2011: Hey man i'm in collage for crminal justice and if she is afraid of that the only thing she can do is tell him, be honest you know. Thats what i did and my girlfriend agreed.... (read in full...)
Can I skip my placebo pill and go straight into the next pack so I don't get my period? Are there any side effects?
Q. I am scheduled to go on vacation to Mexico in the middle of march for 8 days. I am due to get my period right on the second day there, which is highly irritating. If I were to skip taking my placebo birth control week and start right away with the ...
A. 26 January 2011: Call your doctor and be carful in what part of mexico you go in. Its very dangours right now, i just came from there. cheers;)... (read in full...)
Was she trying to avoid awkwardness?
Q. The story is, I see my ex-girlfriend (was seeing another guy during our relationship and lied to my face bout it, reason for "ex" we aren't friends.) at a bus stop and I was with my other friend and just hung out there. she's usually around her ...
A. 26 January 2011: I had a similar situation a while back and my ex did almost the exact same thing. Now that we're talking, I asked her and she said it was because she could not face me. Probably the same thing for you. cheers;)... (read in full...)
Her friends are gonna get in the way if I ask her out
Q. Hi guys i have another question. There is a girl who i have half way fell for, its not a deep love or anything but the problem is if i ask her if she wants to be together she has about 7 other girl who will say no and that can affect her descion ...
A. 26 January 2011: Thanks people. I will try that advice and if it doesn't work then, oh well. cheers;)... (read in full...)
First Valentine's with my girlfriend and I have no money. Need suggestions!
Q. Valentine's Day is about three weeks away and I've got no money at all to buy her anything. Besides, this is our first time together. What should I do?...
A. 25 January 2011: GIve her something for the heart if she loves you it will mean alot. cheers;)... (read in full...)
Job offer, unhappy girlfriend and tough decisions - help!
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in university and I have a serious concern causing stress in my relationship for the last couple weeks or so. I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year, and we love each other and want to marry each other (or so I thought). ...
A. 25 January 2011: Just do what is right and if your afraid of losing her then she is not worth it. A faithful GF would support your decision to better yourself. cheers;)... (read in full...)
My ex is trying to sabotage my new relationship & my new bf is backing off. WHY?
Q. I have found a new man... all is going great. We went on holiday together and got on well. I posted some pics up of our vacation as I was so happy. Anyway, my ex bf is still on my page, which I totally forgot about. He is now trying to get me back ...
A. 25 January 2011: Decide what you want and stop messing around with them both, be faithful. cheers;)... (read in full...)
Are there any couples out there who are 100% faithful to one another?
Q. I dont know if it's because Ive been reading the articles on this site too often (this being a relationship help site and all), but it seems that everywhere I look, people are unfaithful to each other. Im basically asking, are there any couples ...
A. 25 January 2011: Yeah there are couples out there and you will find it if you wait. Don't rush things and remember don't cheat, if your relationship iss not working out try to fix it; if not leave it. cheers;)
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Boyfriend claims he love me. So why does he sleep around?
Q. If my boyfriend says he loves me, then why does he engage in casual sex with others? ...
A. 25 January 2011: Actiions speak louder then words. If he says he loves you but is sleeping with other girls then leave him girl. cheers;)
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Boyfriend's chin stubble is irritating my face. Any ideas to prevent this?
Q. My boyfriend has quite a bit of stubble on his chin. I love it, but I often get rashes and wondered if there was any way to prevent them, or make them less noticeable? thanks x...
A. 25 January 2011: yeah my girl had this same problem, try kissing him different or have him shave it down a bit. cheers;)... (read in full...)
I perform oral sex on her. How can I get her to reciprocate?
Q. How can I convince my beloved to perform oral sex on me? I am doing it for her, but she always refuses. Help me....
A. 25 January 2011: Ask her why it is she is uncomfortable with it and accept her anwser.... (read in full...)
The answer to all your problems (well most) right here!
Q. I don't know about you guys but there are some questions I see time and time again. How 'bout we answer some of those questions right here and hope that anyone about to post the same question has a quick look at the articles first? 1. Why won't h...
A. 25 January 2011: Great post, you seem to know what your talking about. cheers;)... (read in full...)
He saw me holding hands with a friend and now he won't talk to me
Q. I've been talking to some guy and now he doesn't want to talk to me because he saw me holding hands with my friend and he got all pissed off now he won't talk to me...Its been about a week or so and hes still mad at me which i do not know what to do ...
A. 25 January 2011: This guy has problems. He need to lighten up because if your not in a relationship with him then you can do anything you want with whoever you want so tell him how you feel then if he is still mad he is not worth it. hope this helps.;)... (read in full...)
I'm 16 but she thinks I'm older. What do I do?
Q. hi everyone I met this girl and we really like eachother but im 16 male and she is about to turn 20 so i mean she does not know im 16 either she thinks im 19 like her please i need a soultion besides leaveing her....
A. 25 January 2011: Thx guys and girls but i moved on and now i have another ? i will post asap. I relly need help please.... (read in full...)
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