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26-29,
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writes:Dear Cupid, Me and and one of my guy friends were on a group trip last night and he started to hold my hand. What does this mean? What do I say? What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2016):
 Ask him. Do you like this guy? If so then next time you are with him take his hand and talk to him about it. If he is your friend and sure you can talk to him comfortably?
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reader, MartiJJ  +, writes (24 October 2016):
 I would simply try to return the gesture next time I had the opportunity, but perhaps a little more privately if possible! That way if he does want to talk about it he'll be able to discreetly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2016): In short. He wants to be your BF.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (24 October 2016):
 I'll tell you what it means. the new tech generation has largely redefined relationships. You probably think a person of my age could not possible understand all of the new social media terms and all of that. but hey we use phones too.
So here is what it means. It means three days of likes and a status upgrade. He is staking his claim to you publicly.
There is one other possibility, it is his way of saying put down your device and pay attention to me. Did it work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2016): So a group of friends went to the movies one time.
And this boy sat next to a pretty girl. She didn't know if he liked her, and he wasn't sure about her.
But during the movie, he reached for her hand, and held it. They never had a "talk" about it, but they were a couple from that moment on. They're married now (friends of mine).
He might like you. Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2016): Ask him. Hey, you reached for my hand the other night? What was that all about?
You may have been lagging behind the group; or appearing to drift from the flock. He may have only pulled you in out of politeness to make you feel more included. I always offer my arm or hand to a lady in the group traveling solo. It's old-fashioned chivalry.
Just ask him. Then you'll get it straight from the source.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (23 October 2016):
 No details, so it could mean almost anything. You'd have to ask him. Does he flirt or show any other signs he likes you?
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