Did he lose interest? How do I make him want me again?
Q. My boyfriend left for camp Monday morning. I stayed the night at his house Sunday night after he asked me to. We didn't do anything sexual and haven't gone farther than touching and making out. I'm 16, he's 17, and we've been talking for about a ...
A. 2 July 2011: Guys need space and time (why we will never know) and you have nothing to worry about. It sounds like you have a good healthy relationship and when he comes back i'm sure he is going to be back to his old self again. Going to camp can be a big ... (read in full...)
How do I start? Are there ways to recognise if the signs are right for it to become a relationship or not?
Q. I don't know how to start relationships. After a few dates I always find I want more. This time I went on a date to the cinema and we chatted after. We are now apparently boyfriend and girlfriend but he has only text me once today (we started bf n ...
A. 2 July 2011: No we didn't talk about anything like that. I think it was becuase it was really soon etc... I don't know what he wants but I think that he's scared cause it moved so fast thanks for your comment it made me consider other things that i didn't think ... (read in full...)
We hardly spend anytime together and when we do we jump straight to sex..what can I do?
Q. I started messing around with a guy in April, we started dating in May. It's been almost 2 months goin out with him. But when it all started everything was PERFECT and it was amazing. 3 weeks after we started goin out things started changing...
A. 1 July 2011: The first few weeks of a relationship are meant to be about getting to know the person more and sex can be an extension of that. I have also been in relationships where sex has taken over the relationship and the only way that you can get this to ... (read in full...)
Should I go to the cinema with my ex? I'm not sure I can do it again.....
Q. My ex boyfriend dumped me cos he said he didn't want a relationship. He asked to be friends but I told him I can't be his friend cos I love him to much. He said ok and I deleted him off my phone. After 5weeks he rang me saying he's sorry for ev...
A. 1 July 2011: It has been 5 weeks and he has only just realised he has missed you? Men usually go after what they want if they don't they may just be keeping their options open. It seems to me that in the 5weeks you two have been seperated you have got over some ... (read in full...)
How do I start? Are there ways to recognise if the signs are right for it to become a relationship or not?
Q. I don't know how to start relationships. After a few dates I always find I want more. This time I went on a date to the cinema and we chatted after. We are now apparently boyfriend and girlfriend but he has only text me once today (we started bf n ...
A. 1 July 2011: Thanks for the advice it was really helpful especially as he just sent me a message saying it was going to fast and he just wanted to be friends at the minute. It is really confusing but i am going to take your advice and give it time and try not to ... (read in full...)
Should I stay friends with my ex?
Q. My boyfriend of about a yr and 1/2 just broke up with me. I am 20. He made me grow. He was my first love. I felt so comfortable with him and I trust him. He said that he fell out of love with me but still loves me and wants the best for me. He ...
A. 1 July 2011: A friend once told me that a break up is like a broken bone. if it is a clean break it takes less time to heal but if it is a fracture that you keep poking at then it takes longer to heal and even at that it doesn't heal completly. If you stay ... (read in full...)
Should I just leave it now and wait? He is driving me crazy!
Q. I met this guy Jake at the start of March this year. We got together on the night that we met and from then on he pretty much tried everything to get me. At first i was a bit standoffish because i had just been messed over by a previous guy. After a ...
A. 1 July 2011: You deserve so much better than this! If you are getting other male attention then it shows that your a good looking girl and you shouldn't spend any time thinking about "what ifs". Find someone who won't make you worry about what the relationship ... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont...
A. 23 October 2009: it hasnt. he wants to be alone right? then why is he out with mates and a girl? i dont even know if the girl is "with" him or with one of his mates but still he hasnt any time for me but he has tym for them... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont...
A. 23 October 2009: Yeahh! He just doesnt want to see me at the minute so I'm giving him space after 3 years I think he needs it lol! I know he will come back to me just in his own time! I'm going to lift the mood when he's feeling better just to show him life is... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont...
A. 22 October 2009: thanks accountable thats great advice...yeah i can think of a few things that may be on his mind but he tends to obsess over them and then gets angry if u try to interfer! i dont wana annoy him by always bein there! i wanna help but he said earlier ... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont...
A. 22 October 2009: i could drive to his house (yeah im 18 in march i passed my test there in july =)) but i dont wanna annoy him u know i dont wanna be obsessive or clingy and i dunno if i should just give him time to think or whatever... ... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont...
A. 22 October 2009: god believe me ive tried but he wont answer the fone or text me back. its so frustrating and its breaking my heart... (read in full...)
A great kiss--fireworks! Now, 3 days later, we haven't talked yet...
Q. I've been good friends with a guy I met at work for over a year (I now work for another company). He's really out going and fun, but can be shy around women. We tell each other things we've never told anyone else and its great to have such a close ...
A. 22 October 2009: I think he is just embarassed as he doesnt yet know how you felt about the kiss.
i dont think he is regretting it as he made the move to go into your car to kiss you and he may have been just nervous!
at the end off the day the only way to know... (read in full...)
Girls - Is a 6 inch penis big enough?
Q. I just turned 17 and currently have a penis size of 6 inches erect. girls is that good? also will my penis grow over the next couple of years as i continue to grow?...
A. 30 August 2009: its average size... (read in full...)
What can I do to get girls to really like me?
Q. How do i get girls to like me? i need some tips and tricks. im 16 year old and alot of the time get on with girls but when i ask them to go out or meet up or do they like me more than a friend they say no they just want to be friends...Any advice?...
A. 30 August 2009: To male annoymous, that is utter shit! im 16 year old girl and if someone did that to me they'd get a slap round the face so i dont recommend doing it the truth is there really is no answer to this question cus different things work on differen... (read in full...)
My ex is spreading rumors about me. How do I handle this?
Q. Okay there is a lot of little things I could say about this but I think I can keep it very brief. My ex gf is spreading rumors about me. I was 100% loyal to her although she was not to me. She is now with a guy who I know is not loyal to her. ...
A. 22 August 2009: lots of different answers to this but i think the main one is to jus ignore it. make your point clear once ur not a cheater and she has no proof of you cheatin so that any future relationships will not have that doubt that you'll cheat on them in ... (read in full...)
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