How do I make my cousin love me back?
Q. Hey guys and girls im 14 year old and im 9th grade i love my girl cousin and she lives in another country so only 3 times i saw her 2006 2011 2016 so this year i loved her so much and we had really really good times but she went to her country back ...
A. 11 January 2017: You need to stay away from your cousin or else you will end up having all off your family having a big huge fall out and over nothing because you will then realize that it was a crush not love but your family will never trust you again. You need to ... (read in full...)
How do I make my cousin love me back?
Q. Hey guys and girls im 14 year old and im 9th grade i love my girl cousin and she lives in another country so only 3 times i saw her 2006 2011 2016 so this year i loved her so much and we had really really good times but she went to her country back ...
A. 28 October 2016: Just because you are going to see her next year does not mean you need to talk to her now. If you leave her alone you will be well over her by then.... (read in full...)
Do I get back with him and have a baby?.
Q. I really am starting to worry about the future now and what decisions I should make. There have been lots of things that have happened over the last few years that is very difficult to talk to anyone about, so I came across this and thought, it ...
A. 21 October 2016: You would probably be his last because nobody else would put up with his behavior. Am sorry I just don't buy his excuses, yes he has a warped way off looking at things, but he knows how he is treating you is wrong, he also knows that you will let ... (read in full...)
How do I make my cousin love me back?
Q. Hey guys and girls im 14 year old and im 9th grade i love my girl cousin and she lives in another country so only 3 times i saw her 2006 2011 2016 so this year i loved her so much and we had really really good times but she went to her country back ...
A. 17 October 2016: That is a good thing, now you stop texting her. ... (read in full...)
Do I get back with him and have a baby?.
Q. I really am starting to worry about the future now and what decisions I should make. There have been lots of things that have happened over the last few years that is very difficult to talk to anyone about, so I came across this and thought, it ...
A. 11 October 2016: you can't knock him for being honest no, but you need to see it as it is, he does not respect you. He does not want to be committed to you. He sounds almost arrogant like you should be thankful he comes home to you at night. Honestly I don't know ... (read in full...)
Why no kisses? Why are guys so hesitant?
Q. Went on a site that is for people looking for fun. Met one guy but I felt no attraction but he great to talk to. I wasn't bothered if I saw him again. He said I knew where he was and I said the same to him so I thought he would get in touch . H...
A. 11 October 2016: Correction, no guy that you have come across wants a relationship. But that should not make you lower your standards. Give dating a go, take it slow and go at your own pace. ... (read in full...)
At the cross roads. What should I do? Are we getting in too deep?
Q. This past weekend I went to a family gathering with my dad's family most of which I haven't seen in over 10 years. I spent the most time with one of my dad's cousins whom I was very close with when we were growing up and this time got a little c...
A. 11 October 2016: I can understand how difficult it will be, but it does get easier in time. Just remember that you risk losing your family.... (read in full...)
He keeps hanging around but why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet?
Q. I've fallen for him... Back again. But I've spoken to this guy for near 9 months now and I kept thinking he was after only one thing... Then today I realised, why would he wait around 9 months just for that?! So I began to think that maybe h...
A. 11 October 2016: Pluck up the courage to ask him out, either that or you will only be miserable sitting around wondering what if. You have nothing to lose. ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend's girlfriend hit on me, flirt with me and then run and tell him?
Q. I can't figure out my friend's girlfriend. When I am at his house and she and I are alone she likes to show me sexy,nude pictures of herself and she's always talking to me and touching my thigh quite often. Sometimes when we talk she tells me things ...
A. 11 October 2016: Have you told him though that you have tried hitting on her and asking her out? Am guessing you haven't or else he would be considering getting rid off you as well. ... (read in full...)
Losing V card in a hookup good idea?
Q. I've been considering this a lot...I was thinking a hookup would be a good idea. I like the idea because I don't want to be romantic with the guy or see him again. BUT everyone says it's a horrible idea to have a hookup to lose your V card and you ...
A. 11 October 2016: Nobody mentioned sexual assault or rape. We mentioned that he might not be up for doing specifically what you want him to do. Unless he forces you to do something or does not stop when you say no then he is doing nothing wrong. Sweetie you don't ... (read in full...)
Her ex' is hurting and I want to help but...
Q. My girlfriend (age:30) was married for 6 years to some guy she said cheated on her 4 times in 3 years. So she divorced him, he moved out the house, and that's when she met me(age:26) Some months later, she gets a call from a random number, it's her ...
A. 7 October 2016: You sound like such a genuinely nice guy. but honey he hurt your girlfriend badly, how do you think she would feel if she found out you have been talking to him behind her back, she will lose all trust in men. You need to think about her here not ... (read in full...)
It seems like the right time but I'm scared
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and i love him a lot and i really want to have sex, and im sure he does too.. but im so nervous and i don’t have a lot of confidence. So i need help.. how can i be more confident of my body??...
A. 7 October 2016: How long is a while? Have you both spoke about having sex? Are you sure he is ready and wants it as much as you? At your age it can be confusing.
Being nervous is normal, but if you and your boyfriend are comfortable around each other there shou... (read in full...)
I need to make friends but don't know how
Q. Hello! I am a married guy in his 40s and I have literally no friends other than my wife whom I met when I was 19 years old. However, I don't blame her or my marriage because my entire life I have had a difficult time making friends. I switch...
A. 7 October 2016: I don't know you personally so I can't really say why people never see you as a potential friend. Are you making enough off an effort? Do you ask them questions about themselves, there lives, share things with them? Ask your wife what she thinks is ... (read in full...)
How can I ensure, if I see the Doctor, that the Doctor will not tell my mother that I took a morning after pill?
Q. Basically I took the morning after pill a couple of days ago, I went to boots and spoke to the woman there, getting the pill for free, the woman asked if I had a GP and I said yes but she didn't ask for my Gps details she just took my basic ...
A. 7 October 2016: Can you not go to the doctors appointment by yourself? Am sure you are old enough to go in alone to the doctor and not have your mother go in with you. A GP needs to be confidential so I don't think you need to worry. Let us know how you got on. ... (read in full...)
Will he ever make me a priority in his life? Should I move on?
Q. We met online, he said that he thought I was a homebody by my profile. Technically I am - I spend most of my weekdays Netflixing and Gaming, I just like to do things once in awhile. When I was in college I was in a two clubs and a Sorority and thr...
A. 7 October 2016: Sweetie I honestly don't know what you get out off this relationship. Okay so the first month was good, but nobody can keep up an act for long, and that is what it was. Sure he says now he will change and try harder, but it is all words, he is not ... (read in full...)
LDR and online. But does he love me? He never says so. What should I do?
Q. A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me . Then we chated almost all over the night for 2 months.He was always online and replied my messages as soon as possible. He shares everything but never tell that he loves me. Nowadays he reply ...
A. 7 October 2016: No matter how many different ways you post the same question the advice you get will be the same, he does not love you, he never did, he texted when he had nothing else to do but as I said before you are more like pen pals than anything else. Please ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him ? He is emotionally unavailable to me.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend from last two years.He was my first serious relationship. His ex cheated on him...after 1.5 year of that cheating episode..we started dating.I never had any honeymoon phase with him. He was very aloof..he was le...
A. 6 October 2016: Sweetie it sounds like he is with you out of habit and not out off love. He shows no interest in you, he makes no effort. It is almost like he just puts up with you for the sake off having a girlfriend. I understand that his ex hurt him, but he has ... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt and feel like I'm missing ? Why?
Q. Hello everybody, If you have read some of my other posts about me wanting to move on for good and cut the boy who treats me terribly completely, i have finally finished with him completely i think.. Backround info for new readers in caswe you may...
A. 6 October 2016: I think you are waiting for him to pull through for you because you want the happily ever after, which is normal. It is just he is not going to give it to you. Can you speak to someone close when you are feeling down? You need to work on your ... (read in full...)
Losing V card in a hookup good idea?
Q. I've been considering this a lot...I was thinking a hookup would be a good idea. I like the idea because I don't want to be romantic with the guy or see him again. BUT everyone says it's a horrible idea to have a hookup to lose your V card and you ...
A. 6 October 2016: Nobody is insulting you, you asked the question you should be open to what people are saying to you, nobody is being rude, everyone is just concerned about your point of view. Probably because most have experienced sex and they don't want you to be ... (read in full...)
How do I win over macho' man?
Q. What is easiest way to turn my macho' husband into a total sissy who obeys my every command? ...
A. 6 October 2016: Divorce him and find a sissy. ... (read in full...)
Do you think this friendship is dead?
Q. A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me .Then we chatted almost all over the night for 2 months. He was always online and replied to my messages as soon as possible. He shares everything but never tells me that he loves me. Nowadays he ...
A. 6 October 2016: I think he thought off you as a penpal. Someone to talk to about stuff when he couldn't sleep. Someone who could be his friend. I don't think he loved you, to love someone you need to spend quality time together face to face getting to know each ... (read in full...)
Am I getting the soft goodbye?
Q. I met a divorced guy who has joint custody of children of 12 and 13 and a tight work schedule. He told me last night he's not sure of his feelings and because of the stress between us in the last two weeks feels different. We wont be able to see ...
A. 6 October 2016: My guess is that he is telling the truth. I don't think it is you personally I just think his life is hectic at the moment and he is putting his work and children first. I can understand why you are upset, the best thing you can do is leave the ball ... (read in full...)
I can't forget him but does he love me?
Q. A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me .Then we chated almost all over the night for 2 months.He was always online and replied my messages as soon as possible.He shears everything but never tell that he loves me.Now a days he reply my ...
A. 6 October 2016: I think he thought off you as a penpal. Someone to talk to about stuff when he couldn't sleep. Someone who could be his friend. I don't think he loved you, to love someone you need to spend quality time together face to face getting to know each ... (read in full...)
Should we move to get away from this woman? How else can the situation be resolved?
Q. My husband is a very handsome man with beautiful eyes and he has many admirers. I am nearly due with my 3rd child and we are both really excited about the new addition to our young family and a little anxious while we wait for the big day. The on...
A. 6 October 2016: I don't think you should uproot your whole family if you are happy where you are. But I do think you need to talk to this woman. It is clear that you trust your husband and you have no doubts. Therefore I think you both need to confront this woman ... (read in full...)
Do I get back with him and have a baby?.
Q. I really am starting to worry about the future now and what decisions I should make. There have been lots of things that have happened over the last few years that is very difficult to talk to anyone about, so I came across this and thought, it ...
A. 6 October 2016: I don't think you should be with either men. You have said yourself you are not in love with your ex so why would you contemplate spending the rest of your life with him? You deserve to be happy as well, you seem to be forgetting that.
As for the ... (read in full...)
Why no kisses? Why are guys so hesitant?
Q. Went on a site that is for people looking for fun. Met one guy but I felt no attraction but he great to talk to. I wasn't bothered if I saw him again. He said I knew where he was and I said the same to him so I thought he would get in touch . H...
A. 6 October 2016: If you are looking for fun do you think that is going to do much for your confidence? As if a man is looking for fun then he won't take you serious, and you seem to want to find someone who likes you and finds you attractive. So to start with you ... (read in full...)
At the cross roads. What should I do? Are we getting in too deep?
Q. This past weekend I went to a family gathering with my dad's family most of which I haven't seen in over 10 years. I spent the most time with one of my dad's cousins whom I was very close with when we were growing up and this time got a little c...
A. 6 October 2016: If your dad found out about this he would be deeply hurt, as would all his family be. The longer you keep this a secret the more it is going to hurt you. I can advise you now to stay away from your dad's cousin but I don't think you will listen to ... (read in full...)
How do you tell your partner you might have a STD ??
Q. I am recently divorced from a serial cheater. I'm ashamed to admit that a couple months ago I met my ex and in the heat of the moment, we slept together. I didn't really think anything of it beyond a stupid mistake, but after speaking with my ...
A. 6 October 2016: Go to the doctor and get yourself tested, don't have sex or be intimate until the results come back then talk to your doctor about what happens next.
Be honest with your new partner, you have done nothing wrong, but just tell him you have been thin... (read in full...)
Did I mess things up by telling him??
Q. I confessed my feelings to him and his response was interesting. At first he was quiet and then he held me and pulled me close to him. He never said anything back. His actions were very loving kisses holding and longing eye contact. He is very shy...
A. 6 October 2016: He might not be the best with words as he is shy, but his actions prove that he is in to you. I think you are over worrying and analyzing things. Just take it slow and enjoy how things are. ... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt and feel like I'm missing ? Why?
Q. Hello everybody, If you have read some of my other posts about me wanting to move on for good and cut the boy who treats me terribly completely, i have finally finished with him completely i think.. Backround info for new readers in caswe you may...
A. 6 October 2016: You have all the words, you say everything in your post that you should do, but for some reason I don't believe deep down that you are ready to let go off him. You say you know he has treated you bad he is never going to change ect. But deep down I ... (read in full...)
How do I raise this issue with my husband? So that my husband will raise the issue with the girl's mother?
Q. Hi, id just like some advice regarding children as no matter what choice i make i fear im going to upset someone. my husband and i have a son. My husband also still sees his step daughter from his relationship before me. He sees her two Saturday...
A. 6 October 2016: From your update it is clear to understand you are worried because you grew up with lies, so yes I can understand why you are worried. I am assuming the children are still quite young. Your son does not need to be lied to, but he also does not need ... (read in full...)
I'm hurt that my friend lied and deceived me over a man
Q. I still can't get over my anger and hatred for this ''friend'' who lied and deceived me over a man I was very close too. This girl pretended she was my friend. She said she had a boyfriend, but was hanging round this man (I was close too) all...
A. 6 October 2016: You need to try and bury this now and not allow it to hurt you any more. It is horrible when people we trust let us down. But that is life, and you need to let it go or it will make you bitter, and you don't want that.
She is not a friend, and well... (read in full...)
How can I reach a state of acceptance that the one I love does not love me?
Q. Hi there, confused to say the least. i am 19 and love a man who is older (about 15 years older) and this male constantly treats me wrong. Doesn't show any respect, love or loyalty. I believe i am very possessive with people and things and it's not ...
A. 6 October 2016: Sweetie you are worth so much more than he treats you. I am sorry that he has brought the dark side out in you, really I am. But once you break free from him you can build yourself up again. You need positive people around you, people who will give ... (read in full...)
Losing V card in a hookup good idea?
Q. I've been considering this a lot...I was thinking a hookup would be a good idea. I like the idea because I don't want to be romantic with the guy or see him again. BUT everyone says it's a horrible idea to have a hookup to lose your V card and you ...
A. 5 October 2016: I am sorry OP but I think you are being naive here, you have a image in your head, but if you are going to hook up with some random guy, he is going to want to have sex with you, not listen to what you want, he will do it his way, he won't care ... (read in full...)
I've lost the spark for dating
Q. I seem to have lost the spark or the energy with dating. Is this what happens with adult life ? I have been single now for about 6 years and have pretty much missed out on all the 'fun' years of relationships. Now I have been out on a date he...
A. 5 October 2016: It is not just life. Life is what you make it at the end of the day. Maybe you have no interest in settling down just yet and that is okay. You mention you go on a date here and there, but do you give the girl a chance or do you decide quick in to ... (read in full...)
I was offended by the comment my personal trainer made in assuming I wanted to have an affair
Q. Some of you may recognise my story. I met a Personal Trainer who works at my gym. Was not attracted to him at first then gradually got to know a little about him and started growing an attraction. I feel the attraction was mutual as I could read ...
A. 5 October 2016: It sounds to me like he was looking to add you on to his client list nothing more. As a personal trainer he is paid to flirt, be friendly. I think you read in to it to much, and it has resulted in him saying he is taking. If you where told he is ... (read in full...)
We've been living together for 18 months and my b/f still doesn't have a permanent job
Q. I don't know how to start this off but a bit of background... I've been with my partner for two years, lived with each other for 18months. We met when he was at university and moved in with each other after he finished. I didn't go to university...
A. 5 October 2016: Is he having bad luck finding a job or is he just not putting in enough effort? You should not be the one signing him up for work, he needs to make the effort himself. Are you being a mother to him rather than a partner? Does he know how stressed ... (read in full...)
The comments and attitudes of friends about us dating is really causing a strain on our relationship
Q. My life is hell. I am an older woman in a mixed culture relationship of contrasting complexions and when I first met my current partner he made it clear that he was broke depressed and lonely. We were so happy to have found each other at first bu...
A. 5 October 2016: Sweetie this relationship is between you and him, not your family, not your friends, not your work colleagues, just the both off you.
I totally understand why you are strained and why you sometimes think the relationship is not perfect. But hone... (read in full...)
I want to have my first kiss with my boyfriend
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 weeks and it feels like its been years cuz i know him so well. I'm 14 and I really want to have my first kiss with my boyfriend, but I don't know where to do it! And some tips on kissing ...
A. 5 October 2016: I guess at your age almost two weeks is quite a long relationship. Remember though you are still very young. Make sure that you are ready to start kissing your boyfriend and know when to stop. I would recommend doing it somewhere public, also start ... (read in full...)
She showed me her nude pictures. Does this mean she likes me?
Q. A little about us, we are both 21, study at the same university and are very close to each other. We study together, eat together, hang out it the same group most of the time. Last week we were doing an assignment at her place. Actually there w...
A. 5 October 2016: I think you will be okay and it won't effect your friendship. At the moment you are feeling awkward because you have saw her naked and your mind is going in to over drive. Just be polite to her, try each day to make conversation with her, and before ... (read in full...)
Do you think he is selfish? Why does he have double standards over intimacy? Or am I overthinking?
Q. Sorry English is not my first language. I am dating my boyfriend from last 1 year. My problem is related to our intimacy. When the first time we got intimate he asked me will you please give me a blow job i want to go down on you but you are havi...
A. 5 October 2016: I think he is using the STD as an excuse because he does not want to give oral. He probably does not want to admit to the truth because then you will stop giving him blow jobs. Sweetie you deserve to be treated better than this guy is treating you. ... (read in full...)
Ideas please on how to make this the best birthday he has ever had?
Q. Hello all, My husband is turning 27 on the 18th of this month and we have just celebrated our 1st Wedding Anniversary. I'd like to get him something for his birthday that would mean a lot and also do something for him where we can 'have time ...
A. 5 October 2016: Start with what he likes or what his hobbies are and work around that. Maybe get a babysitter and take him away for the weekend. But him something you know he has interest in. ... (read in full...)
How can I reach a state of acceptance that the one I love does not love me?
Q. Hi there, confused to say the least. i am 19 and love a man who is older (about 15 years older) and this male constantly treats me wrong. Doesn't show any respect, love or loyalty. I believe i am very possessive with people and things and it's not ...
A. 5 October 2016: Just like your other post I am going to advice you again to cut all contact, allow your sister to support you. Tell your mother his real age and stop lying to her. You know all off this is wrong, so why let him treat you like this? Now you are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said I was violent today while having sex. I hope that's good?
Q. My boyfriend said I was "violent" while having sex with him today. I was just really into it. And he likes when I am aggressive and take charge. This is a good thing?...
A. 5 October 2016: Violent is not a compliment. You should talk to him, maybe he wants to tell you it was to much but he doesn't know how to, so you should ask him did he like it or did he genuinely think you where being violent. ... (read in full...)
My partner is away alot and I've become too friendly with our neighbor
Q. Okay so, please don't knock me down for this, I just seriously need to ask for help! Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, 3 young children, 2, 3+4 and I have a 10 year old from a previous relationship, my family are my life you know...
A. 5 October 2016: Block this guys number now and stop this before it is to late. Be honest with your husband because if it comes from his friend and not you then you will end up losing him. That is just my advice.
It has only been six weeks, not six years, so you ... (read in full...)
He keeps hanging around but why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet?
Q. I've fallen for him... Back again. But I've spoken to this guy for near 9 months now and I kept thinking he was after only one thing... Then today I realised, why would he wait around 9 months just for that?! So I began to think that maybe h...
A. 5 October 2016: Speaking to someone daily is very different to spending time together getting to know each other, it sounds like you are more like pen pals than lovers. You have only met each other twice. I know nine months is a long time but would a relationship ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but sex with older man is passionate!
Q. Hi, I've been married for just over a year I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We have been together for 4 and a half years and ever since we have got married everything has changed even though we have a daughter together and we lived with each ...
A. 5 October 2016: I also agree that you should be honest with your husband, sometimes secrets and lies have a way off coming out and it would be better he heard it from you than someone else. ... (read in full...)
How do I make my cousin love me back?
Q. Hey guys and girls im 14 year old and im 9th grade i love my girl cousin and she lives in another country so only 3 times i saw her 2006 2011 2016 so this year i loved her so much and we had really really good times but she went to her country back ...
A. 5 October 2016: At 14 you should not even be thinking about marriage, legal or not it could turn out very messy. You are to young to be getting in to something like this. Treat her as a friend. Your crush will fade.... (read in full...)
Why am I never enough for boys , please read!! need advice
Q. Hi, my story is lengthy however I need advice seeing as I constantly am allowing myself to be in situations where I feel less of myself. I am 19 years old and I was never a huge relationship girl in high school because i valued relationships and ...
A. 5 October 2016: In his mind he knows deep down he is doing wrong, he is using his age to manipulate young girls. I think deep down you know that there is something wrong here and that is why you have not told your mother his age. She probably thinks this is just ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend's girlfriend hit on me, flirt with me and then run and tell him?
Q. I can't figure out my friend's girlfriend. When I am at his house and she and I are alone she likes to show me sexy,nude pictures of herself and she's always talking to me and touching my thigh quite often. Sometimes when we talk she tells me things ...
A. 4 October 2016: What a lovely friend you are asking his girlfriend out, no she does not like you, she just wants the attention and drama. She wants her boyfriend to think you are hitting on her, that she is irresistible. A bit of advice, try and be a better friend. ... (read in full...)
Losing V card in a hookup good idea?
Q. I've been considering this a lot...I was thinking a hookup would be a good idea. I like the idea because I don't want to be romantic with the guy or see him again. BUT everyone says it's a horrible idea to have a hookup to lose your V card and you ...
A. 4 October 2016: If you think a hook up is a good idea, then you go for it, its your body your choice. You like the idea because you don't want it to be romantic and you don't want to see him again. Personally I would feel used. I would feel traumatized.
Are you ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but sex with older man is passionate!
Q. Hi, I've been married for just over a year I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We have been together for 4 and a half years and ever since we have got married everything has changed even though we have a daughter together and we lived with each ...
A. 4 October 2016: You should have worked on your marriage and not jumped in to bed with the first guy that looked at you. You make excuses as to why you have cheated, but there are no excuses, you are the one in the wrong here not your husband, you are the one that ... (read in full...)
Why am I never enough for boys , please read!! need advice
Q. Hi, my story is lengthy however I need advice seeing as I constantly am allowing myself to be in situations where I feel less of myself. I am 19 years old and I was never a huge relationship girl in high school because i valued relationships and ...
A. 4 October 2016: He is not a boy, he is a grown man who should know better. No he does not love you, he preys on young girls, he knows just what to say and do to get their attention. Sweetie you have fallen under his trap, but please get out of it now. He is a ... (read in full...)
How do I make my cousin love me back?
Q. Hey guys and girls im 14 year old and im 9th grade i love my girl cousin and she lives in another country so only 3 times i saw her 2006 2011 2016 so this year i loved her so much and we had really really good times but she went to her country back ...
A. 4 October 2016: You have a crush it is not love. Don't spend time alone with her, try and not contact her so much. You need to accept that she is your cousin, she is family not a potential girlfriend. Try and keep yourself busy and meet girls that are not ... (read in full...)
She showed me her nude pictures. Does this mean she likes me?
Q. A little about us, we are both 21, study at the same university and are very close to each other. We study together, eat together, hang out it the same group most of the time. Last week we were doing an assignment at her place. Actually there w...
A. 28 September 2016: Am sorry but I don't think she is interested in you. Her and her friend where having a giggle over her photos, she showed you probably for an ego boost but nothing more. ... (read in full...)
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