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30-35,
*xfatale
writes:I have a crush on a parking patrol officer who works at a plaza behind my school. He gave me a ticket about a month ago and since then I've been wanting to find a way to talk to him. I went up to his car yesterday to ask him a question about getting a ticket if I walk off the property to go into my school. We talked for a bit then I left to go to work. I went to the plaza today to buy a cookie and I seen him again. This time he walked by my car and said "hello" and started a conversation with me. Is this a good sign? is it possible that he's interested? or is he just being friendly because I went up to him the day before? I want to get to know him better but I don't know how since the only time I see him is when he's on duty sitting in his car at the plaza
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2016):
 You have already posted this and people have already gave you advice. I will give you the same advice as last time, bite the bullet and ask him to coffee, it really is no big deal, nothing to be scared about. If he turns you down at least you can stop day dreaming about what if and get on with your life.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (21 October 2016):
 Don't keep getting parking fines - he'll see you as irresponsible and deliberately annoying.
Just go up to him again and ask if he's single. There are certain times when striking up a conversation with someone isn't really possible/appropriate and you just have to move on - this may be one of those times.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (21 October 2016):
 You have posted this question before. Were the answers you got not the right ones?
The only other thing I can suggest is to keep parking in the wrong place. It could cost you a few bob in parking fines, but you will be able to strike up a relationship before too long. You may even be able to find out if he is marred, going steady, straight, or interested in you.
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reader, Jawaab  +, writes (21 October 2016):
Hi, Its hard to be sure at this stage if he is being friendly or is interested. But, it is a very good sign that he started a conversation with you. For a start, you should try to talk to him each day when you see him on duty. Keep the conversation friendly and casual. Ask if he remembers giving you the ticket a month back and if he says YES then you can be sure that he remembers you. They give tickets to so many people each day, so if he remembers you then you can be sure that he was also attracted to you - real positive sign. But in case he does not remember then you dont have to get demotivated. You should try to talk for a little longer and it does not have to be about parking or tickets. Tell him about the cookie shop in the plaza that you like. You should ask him if he would like to try the cookie as well. After a couple of days, you will have a better idea of what he thinks. Go for it, pretty gal. I will be keen to hear how tomorrow's conversation goes. Good luck!
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