I'm not having sex till I get married. Why do so many friends criticise me for this?
Q. I'm a girl, at university and I've decided I'm not having sex till I get married. I'm Christian, but that's actually not the reason why - I'm really liberal and fully in support of gay marriage/pro-choice etc. It's because sex means a lot to me ...
A. 2 June 2013: Okay, like many people said above, honestly they're probably jealous. \ I have a friend who is like that (or so she says she hasn't really been in a serious relationship so..) and sometimes I get jealous because even though I'm still with the pers... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel I must be the loneliest person in the whole world, and I can't see it ever getting better.
Q. I'm 42 and I've never had a girlfriend, or really had a woman show romantic or sexual interest in me my entire life. I've struggled hard to understand why. I'm a perfectly pleasant person. I used to go out a lot and I go on dates so it's not that I ...
A. 15 December 2012: Awww :( I'm sure you're a great guy! I'll be your friend :D Maybe (I know it might seem far-fetched considering your age) but maybe you seriously haven't found the right gal yet. Have you tried, like, church singles nights?maybe you were just meant ... (read in full...)
Am I losing her already? She was so grumpy today. It is unlike her. Why?
Q. So I have been dating a girl for a couple months now. She is incredible and I am so lucky to know her. We became exclusive a month ago and have been loving it. On Wednesday we spent the whole day together and she held my hand and was sad to say g...
A. 15 December 2012: That sounds like what happens occasionally with my girlfriend of 8 months. Maybe she is upset about something? Is something wrong in other aspects of her life? Maybe she just wants to talk about something but doesn't know how.
Or she could be scar... (read in full...)
I made a sex joke about her mom
Q. Hi agony aunts :) well I'm having more problems with my girlfriend. Last night she was angry with me because I made a sex joke about her mom. We got into a huge argument and she told me I wasn't funny, I take things too far, yada yada. And I wasn't ...
A. 24 August 2012: All I did was send her a gif of two lesbians and said one was her mother. . just throwing it out there.... (read in full...)
He's so much taller than me, will this work?
Q. This guy i've met we get along really well as if we've known each other a lot longer than the past couple weeks, we like the same things so we have a fair amount in common. He's really sweet and fun to be around, and good thing is he's funny in such ...
A. 24 August 2012: I think that if you really like the guy and he makes you happy then you should go for it. So what if he's taller? Most of the time guys are taller than girls. (Not in my experience always considering I'm 5'10) and who cares if you have to reach up ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 15 February 2012: Thanks for your help :) - Everyone. Yes I'm calmed down so I wouldn't scream abuse at him if I saw him but I don't think I'll be ready to talk to him for a while still, but thank you still. :) much love xx... (read in full...)
My height has grown and I'm too slim. How can I put on weight in healthy way?
Q. I am too slim how I can put weight ? Have muscles?my height has grown very well but I am very slim.....plz help here..I am new here...
A. 13 February 2012: Well you could try working out just a bit (like to get muscle) but if you don't want that :P then you can eat things like granola bars, have bigger lunches etc. good luck :) xx... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 13 February 2012: Thanks again =P wanted to say :
I'm not telling him how to live his life. I got mad and kind of made him choose between me and her. Okay . I know he is a man ___ because I will casually be on the computer and a freakish chat comes up and those are ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 12 February 2012: thanks for most answers guys :'). By the way : It wasn't actually a misccariage it was a chemical pregnancy (your body thinks your pregnant but it's not) so there never was a baby. My dad left me, I don't want him to "leave" my brother and sister. ... (read in full...)
Why don't I love my brother?
Q. Hi agony aunts! I'm having a problem with love. Not romantically though. My problem is I don't really love one of my brothers. I have 4 sibs. 2 brothers and 2 sisters. (All halves two at each house.) I love my first born brother and used to love my ...
A. 7 February 2012: Okay I feel for you because I'm the oldest as well and I used to get mad at my bro for being mean to baby. You do love him. You are just mad at him that's all. Don't worry to much. Be are full how you react to what he does because then he might feel ... (read in full...)
Too shy to ask my boyfriend to kiss me! Help!
Q. Hi I'm 13 and i am shy around my bf and i really want him to kiss me any advice???...
A. 4 February 2012: You should just wait till it e's quiet and your alone and just lean forward and maye say kiss me or something. It tell one of his friends and I'm sure it'll get back to him... ;)... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I'm holding onto this girl in the hopes that when she loses weight, I'll already be the one dating her...is this a bad thought?
Q. so ive been talking to this girl over msn and we have connected straight away. we like all the same stuff and we have been talking to each other basically all day everyday since we started talking vis texting and msn. we both like each other and w...
A. 2 January 2012: I'm a size 12...-__- Gurl! That is a horrible thought. If you like her, you like her, so go for her either way!!! Don't wait, because a) she will know you wanted to wait till she was smaller or b) she will meet someone else. ... (read in full...)
He's 16, my friend's brother, should I try to get his attention?
Q. Hi agony aunts :) I'm having a bit of a quarrel with myself lately..I like this boy, who I'm kinda good friends with. And we hang out sometimes because he's my friends brother, but she's pretty ok with it so dont freak out. And she sometimes drops ...
A. 2 January 2012: I think you should go for it :) if you think he likes you, and your friend is ok with it...why not?... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to be mad?
Q. My husband and I rarely go out. We visit alot with his family and we go out as a couple often. But we dont go out with other couples. He has has a job almost a year now, and we have gone out 2x with the owner of the company and with the own...
A. 23 December 2011: I think if your husband knows you hate drunks, and he's not even good friends with the guy then you do. I mean it would be different if you guys k ew each other for a long time always had couples nights out etc. but you hardly even recognized the ... (read in full...)
Is it important to have things in common when you date?
Q. Everyone I've dated, and people that have shown interest in me have never shared anything in common with me. Personality, hobbies, likes, interests etc... I was seeing someone for a little over a month and that ended because we had little i...
A. 22 December 2011: Its good to have some things in common (like biking, exotic food, reading, etc) but i think its good to not have everything in common so you can spend time doing new things with the partner and learn about new things with them. ... (read in full...)
Is sarcasm a bad trait?
Q. Is sarcasm a bad trait to have? Do guys not like sarcasm? Not bad sarcasm just a mild if-you-ask-a-stupid-?-I'll-give-a-sarcastic-answer kind of sarcasm. Im just wondering because thts a really big trait of mine .. :P...
A. 22 December 2011: Hey guys thanks for answering :) I am a very sarcasti person, but I'm not one that pokes fun at others (Unless were good friends and they know im kidding) and when people ask serious questions i dont give sarcastic answers, just if somebody says ... (read in full...)
I fell asleep while talking to the guy, do I contact him or wait for him to contact me?
Q. I'm terrible at this dating thing. So I gave this guy my number and we spent all last night talking, before I so nicely fell asleep on him (i felt really bad after that.) So this is my stupid question..Do I text him first or wait till he get's in...
A. 17 December 2011: Haha its not a dumb question, what I usually do when this happens is text him an say "sorry I accidentally fell asleep." And that's it :)... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my best friend's older brother. Should I wait, or make a move?
Q. Hi okay I'm having an issue. My best friends older brother is 2-3 years older than us, but I'm falling for him and have secretley liked him since i met him about 3 years ago. He always talks to me and talks about how hilarious I am and stuff. I...
A. 10 December 2011: Okay just kidding but seriously we used like the same words. But I guess thats what its like when you like your friends brother "a freakout moment" :P good luck!... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my best friend's older brother. Should I wait, or make a move?
Q. Hi okay I'm having an issue. My best friends older brother is 2-3 years older than us, but I'm falling for him and have secretley liked him since i met him about 3 years ago. He always talks to me and talks about how hilarious I am and stuff. I...
A. 10 December 2011: Okay!!! Who copied my questionn????? Lol I just asked a question like this
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Could I be pregnant for 5 seconds of sex, on my period??
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant whilst on your period? seriously!!? i had sex on the 4th day of my period so i was not heavy and my partner didnt even notice, however i had sex without a condom for literally 5 seconds and then i stopped it and said ...
A. 5 December 2011: I doubt it..but it's possible. Take a pregnancy test research wait fer ur next period or talk to a doctor. Dude I'm young and wouldn't get an abortion..your 30-35...um.. Have you considered adoption?!?!? ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and facebook issues. Could it be true that it's her fault he dumped me?
Q. Okay this is weird since just a few hours ago I posted comment about how my boyfriend and how he isnt caring and well he just dumped me like 3 hours ago. I um well I feel really empty and depressed.. And upset because I called that mean girl tha...
A. 3 December 2011: Hi guys, thanks for posting answers :). Nothings better...and i am extremely mad and confused and sad right now...0.o haha but I just wanted to say thanks. I wish I couldve gotten a guy opinion..but I can wait maybe one will answer :)
Thanks aunt... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and facebook issues. Could it be true that it's her fault he dumped me?
Q. Okay this is weird since just a few hours ago I posted comment about how my boyfriend and how he isnt caring and well he just dumped me like 3 hours ago. I um well I feel really empty and depressed.. And upset because I called that mean girl tha...
A. 3 December 2011: Umm Vicci...i didnt say anything on facebook ...0.o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't showing concern for my problem!
Q. Hi there. Okay I'm having a serious problem now with my boyfriend "Jim". Everything was going fine until just three days ago. One of my best friends got all mad at me because I was TRYING to comfort her after the guy she really liked rejected...
A. 3 December 2011: Never mind he um..he dumped me via text.. But thanks for the ..help.... (read in full...)
It stresses me out that he's so close to his female friend!
Q. Ok here is the deal my boyfriend has this friend thAts a girl and he talks to her alot and I swear no matter what I say doesn't ever feel good enough becuz I have a feeling she'd say it better and I think I am break up with him over her because it ...
A. 30 November 2011: Okay, I won't be as much help because I am kinda in the same boat.. But i've gotten through it before. Have you talked to him? Sometimes when I talk to my boyfriend it helps. Don't just break up with him because you think they might be closer than ... (read in full...)
I was just wondering once we grow apart can we get close again?
Q. Hey everyone... I am abit confused at the moment :\ i need some advice please. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over seven months and i feel that we are growning apart :( i have ask him how he feels and he said that we are fine as close...
A. 30 November 2011: It's possible. If you both feel the same about each other. If he is pulling away and your trying to get closer..it probably won't work out too well.
But if you do love each other, then first find out what's getting in the way? Time? Friends? Exes... (read in full...)
She doesn't think I love her as much as I do, how do I prove it?
Q. Hey, um okay. I reaaaalllllyy love this girl. My girlfriend. We've been together for almost 7 months. Everything is going great except, she doesn't think I love her as much as I do. So what can I do to make her see, theres no one else for me? I love ...
A. 14 November 2011: Hm, that sounds like me and my boyfriend!! Sing to her. I'm guessing, if she's a romantic she'll like your singing. Even if you suck, its the thought that counts :))
It wasn't a grey and green monster hat by chance..was it?
In that case ...hahah... (read in full...)
He's my 6th cousin. Not close indeed. My mother still objects. Could we be together?
Q. Okay, so I had went to a cousins funeral back in 2008.. Arrived back home and checked my myspace (back before I had facebook) I had an email from a guy saying here's my number I saw you at the funeral and thought you were cute.. Long story shor...
A. 12 November 2011: I agree with the other two answers. You are over 18, your mom cannot tell you what to do anymore. (She may be able to limit things if you live in her house) If you love him and he loves you, then you should be together. It might cause issues in ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend think I will be old & lonely? It hurt when she said that..
Q. Why does she think I will be old and lonely when am older? kinda hurt.? I met this older friend at work and there was this guy there that liked me and I liked him. I left work for college now. But the guy has stood me up 3times and I'v...
A. 11 November 2011: Well, things like this happen to me a lot. I'm gonna guess she's jealous and maybe likes the guy. Or she's jealous of you period. Don't worry about what she said, she could also be worried you'll get married and have a better life married, before ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is setting up secret online relationships. HELP!
Q. My boyfriend was on the Internet last night and I found out he was index websites and he had set up a profile saying he wanted to meet girls for 1 on 1 sex or secret relationship he says he was only messing but not sure I'd should believe him please ...
A. 11 November 2011: no its not messing. People don't just go "Hey I should make a secret account and pretend to want sex! Hehehehe." He obviously would've cheated and done it had you not found it.... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not being fair to her. Our free time doesn't match up!
Q. May i please have some advise? I haven't had much time to spend with this girl I am dating. And I feel real bad because I am always busy. I feel like it isn't fair to her. She really likes me. And I really like her. but our free time doesn't ...
A. 5 November 2011: I agree with Kc. And if you do have plans with family/ friends sometimes why not ask if she wants to come along? I always feel good when my boyfriend wants me to come to parties with his family and stuff. ::) If your not comfortable with that, then ... (read in full...)
I need to move on in my heart, please give me suggestions?
Q. I am only 16 years old (please don't laugh) but when I was 12 I basically lied to my parents and went out with this boy. After a few slip-ups my Mom found out and she tried to forbid me not to be with him but I never listened to her much. This boy I ...
A. 5 November 2011: Maybe; if you're unsure you should actually talk to him. But if you think you want NO connection whatsoever don't call or text, delete his number, and unfriend him on facebook that way you won't see anything about him doing ehat you like to do. ... (read in full...)
He's a friend of my husband. What should I do now? I am so hurt by his behaviour after I played a trick and caught him flirting
Q. i always doubted that my boyfriend was not being honest with me when he said that he loves me so to prove my point i created a fake id on face book with a different female name and sent him a friend request which he accepted without knowing that it ...
A. 5 November 2011: I agree with mishmash as well. Maybe its a karma thing. Your cheating on your husband, he's cheating on you. There's no way you can expect trust from him if you're cheating on YOUR husband. I'd fix that first before you make any solid plans. Maybe ... (read in full...)
You'll have to trust me on this. I feel I'm ugly. Can I have some reassurance and support please?
Q. So, my problem is that I'm ugly. No, I'm not one of those plain but actually pretty girls that complain about their looks. I was born with a disorder, and while I won't go into a bunch of complicated details, I look really different, and ugly...
A. 5 November 2011: If i were you I'd be slapping some people in the face... No. But seriously, I'm sorry. Everybody has good qualities, even if they weren't blessed with the looks. Once you find that guy, that decent, amazing guy he will accept you for you! Don't feel ... (read in full...)
Trying to live up to my mom?
Q. Hi agony aunts! Well lately I'm concerned that I'll never live up to my mom. When she was a teenager she was really pretty and skinny and quite the ticket. Ok i am not lying when i say this but this guy who liked her went to the mental hospital ...
A. 5 November 2011: Hahaha both the answers made me laugh!!! Bernard...big brute bernard hahaha!! Thats great! And yes haha, I realize I'm not my mom and i dont want to be her , she was teen mom and im scurred to be teen mom!!!!! Anyway, today I was just being self ... (read in full...)
Why? I care so much for others. Yet I am the one being Cyber Bullied. Help me rise above this please?
Q. I finally thought I was okay, and didnt need to rely on strangers over the internet to help me through my life.. Guess I was wrong.. I havent been upset lately but now its all coming back. about a month ago, I went to a party and i regret it, but ...
A. 4 November 2011: Hey, I've gone through kinda the same things you have with my friends. It in't easy and it takes a while to get over. Its not fair that those kids took away your fun on the internet. And they are bullying you. I know it sounds dumb but seriously, ... (read in full...)
I think he likes another girl, what should I do?
Q. Please help ASAP!! I am ina relationship with this boy lets call him "Skylar". I love him a lot and things had been going great until recently. He is kind of a ladies man, girls love him, of course he doesnt return the feelings. Well lately my ...
A. 3 November 2011: Weve been togther about seven months now just by the by :). I didnt really talk to him about it today but I am tonight, and find out whats going on. Thanks to everyone who comented! Really helped!! :)... (read in full...)
I feel so awkward with my boyfriends family! Help!
Q. so my boyfriend is korean and speaks english as his first language. i don't understand or speak korean at all and when im at his home i feel excluded sometimes because his dad for only speaks korean and nothing else. his mum does speak english an...
A. 3 November 2011: Just don't worry about it haha! I'm sure they dont mind, I mean they understand youre english. If it makes you uncomfortable just ask your boyfriend if theres anything you can do. Ha, if you dont want to learn korean dont. ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?
Q. Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....
A. 3 November 2011: I agree with BJacobs. And try to talk to that girl maybe ahe doesnt realize what shes doing and whats going on.... (read in full...)
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