My boyfriend is too soft in bed. Any tips on how to make him give it to me rough?
Q. My boyfriend is too soft in bed. if im being honest, looks wise, i am out of his league, but he is cute. he treats me all the time and i love him. he is okay is in bed. he is very good at passionate sex, when we are both taking it slow, but ...
A. 21 August 2011: I very much disagree with the first comment. This is not about love. This is not about your relationship it is simply about SEX! That’s it and coming from a freak myself your man doesn’t know how to be rough its that simple. You don’t wake up one ... (read in full...)
My husband's child and the mother from a past relationship are back in our lives...the child stays with us every weekend, and my life is pretty much over!
Q. Two years ago I got married for the second time. My husband has a child from a previous relationship and all the time we have been married and for all the time the child has been born the mother and the child have lived in the US. The child who is ...
A. 5 February 2011: Wow it's all about you I see. I understand your set in your ways and a child is not what you want at this time in your life. However did you ever stop and think that maybe your husband the man your to love missed his child and now to have him so ... (read in full...)
How can I tell someone I love him, when he's getting married in two months?
Q. Hi, I'm kinda at the end of my tether with something... how can I tell someone I love him, when he's getting married in two months? Or should I? But what can I do? Nothing has happened between us. I'm trying so hard to keep things platonic. I real...
A. 5 February 2011: I agree with her. Dear Im sorry but it is very simple if he loved you it would be you planning the wedding. Let yoru crush go because it's not love only desire!... (read in full...)
Help! Is he playing games - How would you handle this with your boyfriend????
Q. Hi... This past Friday my BF was suppose to come over for dinner. When I texted him suggestions on what to make for dinner, he texted back saying: "I might not be able to come - My daughter has a baseball game and I thought it was canceled because ...
A. 16 January 2011: Why do you think he is lying to you dear. All you that you wrote could very well be truth. I know that as women we always assume men are lying when we do not get the attention we seek. However that is not always the case. Look at the facts he ... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?
Q. Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republi...
A. 31 December 2010: 1. It is not your place to judge her.
2. See number one
3. She could never have a "normal" relationship with you because you do not approve or accept her lifestyle.
You say your not judging her but you are. If you were not then there would no p... (read in full...)
Is masturbation affecting my erections?
Q. i have a girlfriend and we are almost regularly having oral sex(blow job and sucking) and my girlfriend dnt want to have sex until we are married. she loves discharging my sperm on her Breast and we are doing this almost regularly from past 1 y...
A. 31 December 2010: I am not a man however sex I have alot of experience in. I would say that penis is board with the same type of sexual activity just change it up. There are lots of things you can do outfits, different places, role play. Spice it up and your ... (read in full...)
We weren't having sex so he was going to prostitutes
Q. I've been with my bf for 2years and everything was going good Until I found out he was ceasing on me with prostitutes and girls from clubs!!! To cut things short I broke up with him and Im trying to move on despite the fevt that I'm devastat...
A. 31 December 2010: He didnt cheat did you really say that? A man has needs? So do women! The fact that he lied to you...went behind your back...and slept with other people is cheating...it's the very defination of cheating.
If you want to wait until you are marr... (read in full...)
Am I abnormal or just introverted?
Q. I have friends, and a boyfriend. I'm only 15. Yet whenever I'm with people, I just don't enjoy it. I don't make an effort to talk to people, they talk to me but I just don't get why I don't like talking to them. Am I abnormal or just introverted? ...
A. 31 December 2010: Why dont you talk to people is the question. Is it fear they wont like you or accept you? Or have not met someone who enlightens you? ... (read in full...)
Should I just make it clear that I'm attracted to older guys?
Q. I'm 19 years old i turn 20 in a couple of months. I'm only attracted to older guys say 24-28... I'm sick of feeling like its something i should be ashamed of So i was basically wondering do you think i should just make it clear to everyone?...
A. 31 December 2010: I agree with the other post however do you live at home? Because if you do you still have to follow your fathers rules. Now if you live on your own you can do as you please. Never let anyone's view of you change your actions. ... (read in full...)
Is it just wrong timing?
Q. Me and him met, got to know eachother, then one night we made out. after that we hung out a bit more then we had in the past. It was going good. He had to move to a near by town to start his dream job. He invited me to come see him. I did. It felt ...
A. 31 December 2010: It's not so much timing as he is in a new place, meeting new people, and moving on from your home town. I would say that actions speaker louder then words. If you want to know what he is thinking ask him. ... (read in full...)
Have feelings for a girl and a guy?
Q. Help Is there something wrong with me ? When im with girl i start to have feeling for her ever simce we kissed when were drunk and im love with this boy who dosnt no im deeply in love and i no i will never have him what is wrong with me ?!...
A. 31 December 2010: There is nothing wrong with you sweetie!!!! NOTHING! Your going through life finding out what you like, what you dont like, and who you can not live without. Follow your heart and you can never go wrong... (read in full...)
How can we make our first attempt at oral sex go great?
Q. My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex. Neither of us have done anything sexual. So she doesn't know how to, and I don't know how to help her. She said she wasent sure she would do a good job. So I told her I would help her, but I don't know how ...
A. 29 November 2010: Have you ever watched porn before?
My advice watch a porn together naked...start there
but everyone is different dear and learning what you like and dont is all part of the fun. I think it's great that you both are open and honest with one anot... (read in full...)
Is his request for a threesome a fantasy, or something else?
Q. I have a lovely boyfriend of 2 years, he is a great guy and we have a committed relationship. However he brought up the subject of a threesome recently and it has got me worried. I would be open to the idea of fooling around with her for him, but ...
A. 29 November 2010: You have every right to feel as you do. Sweetie ask him why. The list of reasons that anyone on here will give you could be long and not really for you. This is a question only your boyfriend can answer honestly. I could give you several "ideas" ... (read in full...)
Is there anything memorable I can give him for his 21st birthday?
Q. Oh Dear! My boyfriend lost his favourite ring that he bought in America a year ago, and for his 21st birthday in two days, I bought him a similar one. He just called me all excited, saying he'd just found it in a pocket of one of his pairs of pants...
A. 22 November 2010: Don’t return the ring at least until you tell him that you bought it for him. That was so sweet of you and I think it would be a shame for that amazing act to never to known by him.
You can find something else to give him you it makes you feel bett... (read in full...)
Why did my near perfect man fail me?
Q. i have been married for 14 years...the last 2 hell on earth...we had marriage problems 3 years ago i tried to talk to my husband but he ingored me , hoping the problem would go away..it got worse..i felt a stranger in my own home, he seemed to be ...
A. 22 November 2010: Sweetheart you are nowhere near pathetic my dear. My heart hurts for you so much pain placed on one person. My dear you need help professional help talk to someone that can help you to heal and build back up your self confidence. Beating you is... (read in full...)
We broke up but we still like to hang out
Q. MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined. Okay.. So here we go..(sorry it is sooo long!). My ex and I were dating for 6 months and broke up 7 months ago. He broke up with me. When we were dating I always went over to his house, and when I d...
A. 22 November 2010:
Are both questions for you?
Cause that just confuses me however the first part of your question if the man wanted you he would stop at nothing to get you. Do not try to make more out of something then is really there. Twisting or analyzin... (read in full...)
I believed he was single, now I am pregnant and want to tell his wife!
Q. OK here it is.. I am a 35 year old woman. I met a guy who was introduced through a great friend.. this man told me for more than a year he was divorced and that he lived alone in a house with his daughter and his dog. after a year of talking w...
A. 22 November 2010: First of all you have to have all your ducks in a row. Coming from a married woman I am telling at you first I would not believe you. If this man lies as much as you say I am sure he will have a way of twisting this situation to make you out to be ... (read in full...)
I am having an affair with my boss and his wife knows about it!
Q. I m in love with my boss, he loves me too. He is 15 years senior to me, is married and has 2 kids. it all started from his side andhe says that he wants to marry me... we are in a relationship for 5 years now, there have been all sorts of problems ...
A. 22 November 2010: If you cannot leave your job at least stop seeing this man! If he really loved you he would never treat you with such disrespect. I am sorry to say sweetheart that is what this is because he will never leave his wife. He is using you to for fill ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to persue this girl?...Has the trail gone cold?
Q. Okay, Long story short, went on a few awesome dates with this one girl who I'm really into for some reason. It seemed like she was feeling everything on the seem level too; awesome conversations, a lot in common, a lot of laughs in gener...
A. 22 November 2010: I agree with you dear..lay low...dont stress...and give it some time...that is all you can do..... (read in full...)
There's nothing that I have that she wants. What can I do?
Q. Like it says on the Title; there's nothing I have that she wants. I really have NO idea what to do. I offer to take her to the movies, she likes the idea but she's not psyched about it, I offer to take her to dinner at a restaurant, she ...
A. 19 November 2010: I guess I’m confused is she your girlfriend or just friend?
And you keep saying YOU do all these things for her and she is never unappreciative.
However have you ever asked her what SHE would like to do?
... (read in full...)
Should I continue to persue this girl?...Has the trail gone cold?
Q. Okay, Long story short, went on a few awesome dates with this one girl who I'm really into for some reason. It seemed like she was feeling everything on the seem level too; awesome conversations, a lot in common, a lot of laughs in gener...
A. 19 November 2010: It sounds like this woman has A LOT on her plate right now. IF you care for her you have to understand her and her needs. Maybe she is the type of person who holds stuff in or maybe not. But her father is sick and I’m sorry but calling you to ... (read in full...)
Why is she avoiding me?
Q. I know a girl and we dated for a couple of months. She moved then for no appearent reason stopped talking to me. Then i seen her around and she acts like she isn't avoiding me. Whats up with that? ...
A. 19 November 2010: Sorry to be the one to tell you this dear but she avoiding you because she doesn’t want to speak to you. Don’t take it personal or feel there is something wrong with you. Some people just do not flow together and she is just not that in to you! ... (read in full...)
Mixed feelings and don't know which way to turn
Q. Hi, I posted a few months ago about my boyfriend and things are no better really. We have been together for 14 months now. I am 38, divorced and he is 43, divorced. We are meant to be getting engaged at Christmas but I am having doubts. I have ver...
A. 19 November 2010: You said you feel bad because he doesn’t have friends nor like where he lives. My dear it is NOT your job to fix him and giving him an out and place to escape will not fix his insecurity issues! You can not marry him because you feel bad it would ... (read in full...)
He has a restraining order against me yet he waves at me when we pass on the street!
Q. My ex has a restraining order against me, and is now waving when we pass on the road. what's up? This is a person that told me at the end of our relationship that he never loved me and he wanted nothing to do with me again....
A. 15 November 2010: Forget him love I’m sorry to say if he really loved you he would have never gotten the restraining order. Holding on to him will only hurt you in the end. Find a man who adores you for just being the woman you are my dear. Crazy I know crazy but ... (read in full...)
A sober girl's intimacy with a drunk guy?
Q. Hello! I'm new, but I've been rather worried and confused about an encounter that occurred a few nights ago.. I'm 19 and a freshman in college. I'm not extremely well-versed in love (I'd had one relationship in high school, which ended shortly ...
A. 15 November 2010: Sweetheart your worrying for nothing I am sorry to say. He was drunk and you are an attractive female lying in the same bed with him. If you would have given in and had sex with him he would of still never called nor expected anything from you. ... (read in full...)
Mixed feelings and don't know which way to turn
Q. Hi, I posted a few months ago about my boyfriend and things are no better really. We have been together for 14 months now. I am 38, divorced and he is 43, divorced. We are meant to be getting engaged at Christmas but I am having doubts. I have ver...
A. 15 November 2010: If you were to look up the definition of love you would find several different explanations. The one thing I found in life when I am unsure, scared, or confused I try to find the root of the problem. Maybe the reason you keep thinking about what ... (read in full...)
Can you hate and love someone at the same time?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together since May 2008. We started a long distance relationship because he was from the States and I was a Canadian working in Asia at the time. He flew about 100 times a year and he would always try to find time to ...
A. 14 November 2010: It is not hate that you’re feeling sweetheart its fear. Fear he will stop loving you. Fear you’re not the one only one he loves. That is why you become angry and lash out against him. Hitting is not ok in any level. You have no right to treat ... (read in full...)
How do I get to her without coming over too strong?
Q. I've known a girl for some time and we do seem to share some chemistry. Now, I am great around her at parties with her friends and I have managed to befriend all her friends (to a level where most of them count me among their good friend). I tease ...
A. 30 October 2010: Women dont work like men dear...so if she already allows you around her and her friends you are worthly to her...however you need to find out now if your just a friend to her...or has she been waiting for you to man up and claim her!
Kiss her you ... (read in full...)
Is my logic here correct?
Q. Recently I has a conversation with the man I've been involved with for quite some time. The topic was as to why he disappears for extended periods of time for no apparent reason. The end result was him telling me that when things got too emotiona...
A. 30 October 2010: That one is tricky because he could mean that the mini vacations are unhealthy because he is doing stuff he should not be doing.
But really it's simple ask him. Does he love you? Will he ever love you? If you were to leave would he care?
... (read in full...)
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