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How can we get over this petty fight that all started because of an iPod?

Q.   Ok people I bet you will laugh and cringe equally when you read this little issue I'm having. Last night I asked my boyfriend if I could use his ipod at the gym this week (because he never uses it when he's there). Much to my surprise, he sai...

A.   7 February 2011: Well I'm not perfect. I'm over emotional and freak out kind of often. I didn't think it was a lot to ask me to be my best all the time. But you all are saying I may have really bad self esteem issues? I know I have some insecurity issues but it s... (read in full...)

Was he not attracted to me? Was it nerves?

Q.   Hi ladies I had my first date with a guy I met a few weeks ago. He invited me for dinner at his house as he wanted to cook for me. We had a lovely evening together and he was very polite and didn't make any moves. We had a little kiss and cuddle o...

A.   7 February 2011: He went soft for one of 2 reasons: 1 being that he has an erection disorder which is NOT YOUR FAULT. It's just something he needs to see a doctor for. or 2: his mind was else where and thus he was not in the moment and unable to keep it up. ... (read in full...)

I just don't think I love her, and while I'm still in love with my ex I don't think I ever will!

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm having a bit of a crisis in my love life right now, and I've reached the point where I feel I need some impartial advice, so here goes: I'm currently going out with a girl who I've been seeing for about a month. The relations...

A.   7 February 2011: Ask yourself this: Did you consider your ex "the love of your life" at the time you were with her? If so... Why did you allow the relationship to tarnish? And you mention how your ex has issues with insecurity (her looks, blaming her healt... (read in full...)

We've always cheated on our partners with each other, should we end contact?

Q.   ive been having sex with my exboyfriend off and on for the last 8 yrs(dated in hs) we always seem to reconnect. we've always cheated on our partners with each other. should we end contact? he has a gf now and a one yr old...but he claims he doesnt ...

A.   3 February 2011: I used to be right where you are (except it didn't go on for 8 years, only about 1 year, if even!). If this guy was your first love, it's hard to let go. Very hard. But the tough reality is, you two have obviously had points to honestly get back... (read in full...)

I want to stick by him but I don't think I can handle him being in contact with this woman, who is pregnant with his child.

Q.   I have been with my husband for almost 24 yrs. We are highschool sweethearts. We've been married for 14. We have a 20yr old son. This last yr he found me flirting with a guy online. He took it upon himself to find his own affair with a 24 yr old ...

A.   3 February 2011: Oh, your post just breaks my heart. I wish I could hug you. I know you need it. You were high school sweet hearts. I'm assuming that he is the only man you have ever had sex with? And that you're probably the only woman he was with as well (un... (read in full...)

My best friend took me in, and helped me escape an abusive relationship. Now I'm having feelings for her. Do I tell her?

Q.   I have a friend I've known for a little over 4 months now. She insisted I move in with her, so I could get away from my abusive soon to be ex husband. She has slowly become my best friend as I learn to trust more and more. I trust her pretty much ...

A.   3 February 2011: I feel like you have answered your own question in two different ways :) First off, you say you do not know if these feelings are real and valid emotions or if you just want attention from the lack of it you received from your ex husband.... (read in full...)

How Do I deal with a moody, somewhat selfish, loner, low sex drive bf?

Q.   so ive written on here before.. i have mixed feelings about my relationship.. maybe its not my bf..maybe its me.. ive had alot of bad luck w/ guys and i feel ive let them walk all over me..so in this relationship, im trying to communicate mo...

A.   3 February 2011: Lets go to the root of this: you gain close-ness emotionally through sex when you are in a loving, committed relationship. Sex is where it all begins. If you can't be honest in bed, express yourself in bed, you won't feel so secure doing it with ... (read in full...)

Recent events rehashed memories of when I was abused by a relative. My father would never hurt me, but now I distrust him!

Q.   So this question is nothing about dating. It's just a feeling I'm experiencing and would just like to know if I'm over thinking or what. I'm twenty and knowing that, my parent's friend, who happens to be married and has a kid, came on to me. H...

A.   3 February 2011: As a third party unrelated, I want to just say, you're over thinking it. But as a 21 year old woman who has expeditions with depression, I know how easy it is to over think just about anything. I was abused by two very close relatives. Not i... (read in full...)

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