Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?
Q. Okay so I have the biggest crush on this guy ! And I really want to ask him out ! But I'm really nervous ! His best friend is one of my really good friends and he told me he likes me but I don't know ! How do I ask him out without it being really ...
A. 30 June 2013: Has he given any sign that he likes you? For instance, does he message you a lot or call you or do you catch him running into you all the time? Does he compliment you a lot or...you know? Signs!
If you feel that he likes you, then you may want to ... (read in full...)
I thought the dating was going well but he said he didn't want to commit
Q. Hi everyone, just hoping for a bit of advice on this one. Was dating a guy a few months back, who I got on really well with. He was quite hard to read at first, I wasn't sure whether he liked me as he would often look kind of awkward in my company, ...
A. 30 June 2013: Sometimes guys do like us, but they are not willing to commit for whatever reason. And then, as a defense mechanism or just because they are too ashamed to admit they were wrong, they start ignoring/ not staying in touch.
We unfortunately expect e... (read in full...)
Please, can you tell me a way to forget her? She's moved on. I have not. And Still I do love her so much.
Q. I am finding I am experiencing a very hard time in forgetting a girl who I loved. We were very good friends and I had told her about my feelings. She was not sure that time. However after sometime we had an affair. I had initially thought she love...
A. 24 March 2013: Hugs! cheer up! Heartbreak is a painful part of life which most of us have to experience. Very often we expect people to treat us the way we treat them...but then that would be an ideal world...and it is not. If you need to get over her - break... (read in full...)
Am I gay?
Q. When i masturbate and do this to gay porn, it seems to turn me on so much more and my orgasm would be a lot better and more "pumpy" than when i do it to heterosexual porn. Does this mean i'm gay? I have a girlfriend and she turns me on perfectly ...
A. 10 June 2011: You are bi-sexual. That's ok...there's nothing wrong about it, relax. You can still have a normal relationship with women.... (read in full...)
Friend has offered to let me stay at his place. Do I do it? Or get a hotel?
Q. To cut a long story short... I was in love with a guy a couple of years ago...pursued him like hell (ok i made a fool of myself) but he was not interested...so it was basically one sided. A couple of months ago i met him. After a gazillion yea...
A. 22 May 2011: Well just to let everyone know. I DID stay with him. HE was a perfect gentleman...made no moves. We went out for dinner and a movie...chatted into the wee hours of the night...he made breakfast for me; after which he dropped me off at the station ... (read in full...)
Friend has offered to let me stay at his place. Do I do it? Or get a hotel?
Q. To cut a long story short... I was in love with a guy a couple of years ago...pursued him like hell (ok i made a fool of myself) but he was not interested...so it was basically one sided. A couple of months ago i met him. After a gazillion yea...
A. 20 May 2011: But thank you anyhow for your inputs :)... (read in full...)
Friend has offered to let me stay at his place. Do I do it? Or get a hotel?
Q. To cut a long story short... I was in love with a guy a couple of years ago...pursued him like hell (ok i made a fool of myself) but he was not interested...so it was basically one sided. A couple of months ago i met him. After a gazillion yea...
A. 20 May 2011: I'm not going to have sex with him...if that's what everyone thinks. Its just that i had feelings for him once upon a time and i don't want them to return :(... (read in full...)
My boyfriends gone travelling for 6 months?
Q. My boyfriend has just gone away travelling for 6 months and im devastated, we both decided to see where we stand when he gets back which i think is the best idea but just thought of not bein able to pick up the phone n call him whenever i want is ...
A. 6 February 2011: I think you should maybe consider talking to him and telling him that you guys should agree not to date anyone else during this period. If he's never cheated on you, then i don't see any reason as to why he will cheat in the future. Have ... (read in full...)
Is he serious about me? Or does he just want to get laid?
Q. I've been seeing this guy on and off... It all started off when we ended up kissing on his birthday (we were best friends)...and the kiss was so good that we ended up getting frisky a couple of times after that. I fell for him...and even told...
A. 6 February 2011: well yeah, i told him that i'm NOT going to stay with him and he's booked a room for one person only...
So that't that...
Thanks, every1 :)... (read in full...)
Is he serious about me? Or does he just want to get laid?
Q. I've been seeing this guy on and off... It all started off when we ended up kissing on his birthday (we were best friends)...and the kiss was so good that we ended up getting frisky a couple of times after that. I fell for him...and even told...
A. 5 February 2011: Cerberus...you are right... I won't do it. But should I meet him? Or should I just stand him up?... (read in full...)
Is he serious about me? Or does he just want to get laid?
Q. I've been seeing this guy on and off... It all started off when we ended up kissing on his birthday (we were best friends)...and the kiss was so good that we ended up getting frisky a couple of times after that. I fell for him...and even told...
A. 5 February 2011: Yeah even I thought it sounded fishy...so I'll just put my phone down...I don't want to make a mistake and regret it for the rest of my life!... (read in full...)
Is he serious about me? Or does he just want to get laid?
Q. I've been seeing this guy on and off... It all started off when we ended up kissing on his birthday (we were best friends)...and the kiss was so good that we ended up getting frisky a couple of times after that. I fell for him...and even told...
A. 5 February 2011: And yeah...i forgot to mention...we live in different cities..... (read in full...)
What can I do to better my relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and i relationship truly sucks!! There is barely any communication, he shows no affection, nor gives any compliments,he has a bad temper.. which he has been controlling, we are always arguing, and majority of the time we never agree on ...
A. 5 February 2011: You should try to find out WHY you are fighting so much...is there something bothering him? Is it the work pressure or any worries like finances?
Also, you guys rarely spend any time together so how can you bond?
I suggest that either one of yo... (read in full...)
Unwanted hair on my stomach!
Q. For about 5 years or possibly more i startec to develop dark hair on my belly! Im extremley embarressed about this as i feel its not normal for a girl to get this?! I have tried to shave it and even wax strips but it just comes back! I cant show my ...
A. 20 January 2011: DO consult a doc first.
The hair maybe due to a hormonal prob like irregular monthly cycle or thyroid...once you know the cause you can start the treatment if the doc prescribes medicine.
Then GO n get the hair zapped away thru a laser clinic..... (read in full...)
She's always on my mind and driving me crazy
Q. I got together with this girl early last year. I wasn’t to fussed about having a relationship at the time because I was happy how I was but she was a nice girl so I met up with her a few times and we ended up having a relationship. I could tell this ...
A. 20 January 2011: This is so uncanny...coz this is exactly what happened to me - though i was the 'girl' this time.
I think this is happening due to a few reasons :
1. She doesn't trust you now coz when she told you she loved you; you acted like a jerk ; di... (read in full...)
Does "love at first sight" really exist?
Q. Is there really such a thing as "love at first sight" or should it be "attraction at first sight" - I think the first has happened to me. ...
A. 21 December 2010: it sure happened with me! I saw this guy...and wham! i was a goner...sure, maybe he was attractive...but attraction is only one factor...sometimes...it just happens!!... (read in full...)
We are just friends..so why do I feel guilty?
Q. My bf and I just broke up. We broke up because he said i wasnt his because i had had sex with guys before him. No matter how I tried to explain it he wouldnt understand. He said the only way to make me his was to have sex with me every day, and he ...
A. 10 December 2010: I think you should never contact him again..he seems to have serious issues...whatever they maybe...this guy just spells 'MISERY' for you...
Move on, forget about him...its tough; i know, but you gotta watch out for yourself. :)... (read in full...)
Everyone says it's not right we're dating because she's under 18?
Q. Hey everyone, So my girlfriend is 17 years old and i'm 19. Everyone keeps saying that it's not right for us to be dating because she is under 18. I don't think it's a big deal but I was wondering what you all think. So do you think it's okay or is ...
A. 8 December 2010: What crap...how do two years here and there matter.
Just go ahead with it...and pay no heed to what others say. Just make sure you don't do anything which is illegal...regarding the consent age.
Otherwise...you guys seem to be happy and i hope... (read in full...)
Pros & cons of friends with benefits relationship
Q. Do you think its wise to have a friends with benefits type of relationship with a stranger to get over your ex? Not looking for any serious committed relationship right now. But I don't want to get hurt again as this would be the first time I would ...
A. 2 December 2010: you know...when people talk abt 'friends with benefits'....usually someone ends up getting hurt...i really don't think its a good idea to indulge in sex just to get over someone..
Infact it may make things worse...coz you'll be entering a physical... (read in full...)
Should I move on?
Q. I will try to make this short I have dated this guy for almost two years and he works a lot which doesn't allow us to spend a lot of time together which i understand but what i don't undetstand that on his days off he would tell me that he would see ...
A. 2 December 2010: I think you should move on...this person doesn't seem to value you or cherish you...or he'd never treat you this way...i know you love him; but sometimes its better to let go...coz there's someone who'll treat you like a princess who's waiting for ... (read in full...)
Why am I hurting so much?
Q. Hey, I was in a relationship for about a year with a guy that i believed in my heart was the one. we got together and things were good for a few months then i started to feel like he was scolding me like a child, when he would hurt my feelings by ...
A. 30 November 2010: It hurts because you loved him...and when u lose someone you love...it has to hurt.
You ended it because the relationship was doing you no good...it just made life tough for you...so don't blame yourself.
I know you feel bad that you ended t... (read in full...)
Do you feel like I do? I love my best friend!
Q. Hey everybody. This is kind of a follow up to a question I asked last year about this time. I met this girl about 2 years ago and we hit it off straight away. As time past by she became my best friend. She is so funny, so witty, so smart, intel...
A. 29 November 2010: If you aren't afraid of hearing a 'no', i think you should ask her out once again...if she'd want to get into a relationship with you.
I get that thing about her being upset about her ex, but its been two years; you've been patient - i think yo... (read in full...)
In your own personal experiences, how long does it take you to get over someone?
Q. Just a question, for anyone to answer... on average, how long does it take you to get over somebody whom you've broken up with? Or who you've liked. I'm just asking because I feel as if it takes me so long to get over someone. My relationship with ...
A. 12 November 2010: It depends...when i broke up with my 1st boy friend...whom i loved a lot it took me almost a year!
But with the second one...it took only a month...every one takes time...depending on the intensity of feelings...and how strong you are...gi... (read in full...)
Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?
Q. Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...
A. 20 October 2010: hmm so it seems that by and large guys don't mind it :D
Ok, i guess i'll cook up something special and think of some other personal stuff:)
thank you, every one :)... (read in full...)
Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?
Q. Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...
A. 19 October 2010: So food it is. And can you elaborate on the 'do something sexy' part? :D... (read in full...)
Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?
Q. Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...
A. 19 October 2010: Well, i was asking this coz my ex bf never used to seem like he liked getting anything which i made...or maybe he was just too materialistic.-_-
Ah well, its worth a shot :)... (read in full...)
I am so angry he cheated on somebody with me!
Q. So i invited this guy from my college round for a party, by the end of the night it was just me and him, we spoke for ages and felt closer to him, which later led on to the most amazing sex i've ever had. a couple of nights after i went to talk to ...
A. 18 October 2010: I'm really sorry that this happened to you...he should have told you and never let things get so far.How mean and unkind...and think about the fact that he's cheated on his gf...he's so not worth it.
You have a right to be angry; but do realise ... (read in full...)
I believe he was my soulmate, and now cant get over him!
Q. I want to know if a guy I dated was my soulmate, and if so how to do I get over him? So my sophomore year of high school I had a class with this guy... and immediately felt a connection. We both wanted to take it slow and not rush into things, ...
A. 17 October 2010: Hmm.
I understand the thing about the connection.:)
And the whole soulmate thing too...
but the point is...maybe He is your soulmate but aren't meant to be together...atleast for now :)
I think you need to sit down and seriously think...w... (read in full...)
What do I do about my inability to let go of my fairy-tale fantasy?
Q. Hi, so I am an almost-sixteen-year-old girl and I have known for some months now that I like girls. I have never had an issue with gay people or anything like that and I am comfortable with the realization that I myself am gay but at the same time ...
A. 13 October 2010: There's no harm in having a fantasy...heck! Even i had one- and none of my dreams came true...they just took different directions.
Like when i was 16 (as old as u r), i fell in love for the 1st time...it did not work out- but look at me now! I f... (read in full...)
Why do people keep photos of their ex?
Q. Why do people keep photos of their ex'? I girl i've been seeing for almost a year keep photos albums of her ex' on her bookshelf in the living room. There must be hundreds of them. Should i be freaking out here? She gets angry if i keep anything ...
A. 21 August 2010: Well....i don't think you need to be TOO concerned about this...as long as she just keeps them as memories.
But i WOULD be concerned if she talks to them on a regular basis/hangs out with them...you know what i mean, right?
And well, you should... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hit me last night!
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I were leaving a friends house and we got into an argument. After I got out of his truck he followed me and wanted to keep talking but I told him I was tired. He grabbed my arm, yanked me towards him and pushed my face to ...
A. 14 August 2010: Abuse is abuse - physical or emotional. If i were in your shoes - i would leave. Any guy who lifts a hand on his girl isn't worth it....believe me. ... (read in full...)
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