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My husband left me and I think he's now coming over to talk divorce. I don't think I can handle it

Q.   Okay, So a few days ago my husband left and told me he wasn't coming home again via text. I tried so hard to give him space. I did send a few texts back to him and I never got a response. - Which is fair. The reason why he left is because i had ma...

A.   22 January 2017: He came home apologised and said he wanted to work things out and then told me he is interested in working away. 7 days on and 7 days off in another city. I listened and told him i have nothing to say and asked him to leave again. Right now i ... (read in full...)

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

Q.   So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

A.   21 January 2017: He texted me friday to tell me he was leaving and then texted me last night asking to come over to talk. He hasnt spoken to the kids since leaving and hasnt responded to our 12 yr old sons texts. I know he is hurting. So im trying to understand why ... (read in full...)

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

Q.   So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

A.   20 January 2017: He messaged me yesterday telling me he isnt cominf home. Im just trying to figure out how to cope. I told my mum, my closest friend and my 2 sisters who are going to take turns in staying with my for a few days. The kids asked what's going on. I to... (read in full...)

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

Q.   So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

A.   19 January 2017: I feel so silly. I've downloaded an app for my phone to help with budgeting and i've organised financial counselling for myself. this is something he will refuse to attend. Im doing something to help myself. i think my marriage is over after 8 ... (read in full...)

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

Q.   So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

A.   19 January 2017: I was paying for things he asked me to pay for. But i couldnt afford on my small left over budget. ... (read in full...)

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

Q.   So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

A.   19 January 2017: I feel that i wasn't clear either. The credit card gets paid every week. It didn't have much money on there because he wanted to go on a huge holiday. Which we also used our savings for. I gave in because he told the kids about it before me. The... (read in full...)

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how...

A.   2 July 2014: Thanks for your wonderful feedback. I got to the job interview and felt really prepared, I sat down took a sip of water and forgot everything that I have been studying for, for 3 weeks. But that's ok. Any interview is an experience in it self... (read in full...)

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