Worried about future involvement
Q. I am an extremely emotional person. I had ended my first and only romantic relationship four years ago. There have been quite a few women who have shown interest since then but I wasn't ready for it again. I now find myself finally into a nice lady ...
A. 21 April 2017: If you're worried about her getting anxiety or a panic attack because of something you did/will do, my advice is to take it slowly, and if you do get in a relationship, make sure she's okay with whatever's going on between you to at the moment. If ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, girlfriend is 14 ... I am thinking of breaking up because we cant find anywhere private!
Q. Am a 16 year old teenager in High School. Am currently a junior dating my 14 year old freshman girlfriend. We've been together 2 months and its been working out. Me and her have kissed before a couple of times, but never making out. The reason being ...
A. 1 December 2016: You want to see her outside school. Go to a nearby park with her, go to the movies with her, join an extracurricular group with her, or go to each other's houses. Maybe even just find a bench on your school's front lawn and sit there and talk to her ... (read in full...)
Do I believe him?
Q. Okay so I'm going to start with the fact that I'm 18 weeks pregnant by my ex. However I still haven't told him and I know that's it's a little messed up but when I texted him about two months ago asking him if we could meet up and talk he texted ...
A. 1 December 2016: I agree with Aunt Honesty. You need to focus on yourself and your baby and YOUR life, and you need to tell your ex you are pregnant. You've said that you're comfortable with this and with raising your baby alone. If your ex is willing to help you ... (read in full...)
I want to know what is going on in this teacher's mind!
Q. This is a bit long. Thank you for paying attention to my question. Now, I shall inform you about the main person of the problem. It's a male teacher, he teaches us Chemistry at school. He is forty seven years old, and has a daughter. His da...
A. 11 November 2016: I think this relationship with your teacher doesn't mean a dangerous relationship, but it definitely doesn't mean a completely harmless one. So if you follow these key safety rules, you will be perfectly fine.
1. If he ever does ANYTHING... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend insensitive to praise this new employee to the extent he did? Or am I being too sensitive?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a few years now and we love each other but a comment he made this morning really upset me... He was interviewing this woman for a job and he texted me afterwards saying she was excellent and that he would be hiring h...
A. 31 March 2016: I agree with wrathykins and Honeypie, that it's OKAY for him to be telling you about an employee that he thought was particularly suited for the job. I'm sure if you were an employer and you found someone who the job was practically made for, you ... (read in full...)
So there’s this girl... what would be the best move I can make?
Q. Hi, Ive never been one to post a heart filled question but I've got one thats been bothering for a while and I need some advice. So theres been this girl which I have been friends with the whole way through school she was one of my best friends ...
A. 31 March 2016: I agree with aunt honesty and here are my thoughts: Say you can't go, and then suggest that the two of you do something together to make up for it. Take it slow. The thing that aggravates me is, if I only knew this girl I could tell you the best way ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend, his Mermaid, and me. Was he disrespectful to add a mermaid? How should I handle this?
Q. I will try to make this short and sweet. My boyfriend (we have been dating for a 1.5 year broke up a few times for 2 weeks). He is a big tattoo guy, He has a sleeve and half a sleeve on the other arm. I don't mind them, as I think they look nic...
A. 31 January 2016: This does sound like the tattoo is another woman if he says that it's "his mermaid." I seriously doubt this mermaid is a threat. Maybe it was a late ex. Maybe it was a family member. There's no need to worry.... (read in full...)
What can you advise in this situation? It feels like I am option two.
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks and it's been amazing. The connection is unlike anything I've experienced in such a long time. I started to fall in love with him the second I first saw him. Magic. We love each others company, the sex is t...
A. 31 January 2016: I agree with Denizen. Make sure that you talk to him about this. Tell him that you feel like you are being pushed aside as a backup if he doesn't like this girl. Make sure to be calm, and use an even tone. Don't let your anger come out, because that ... (read in full...)
My Bf and I, both 14, kiss a lot. Should I be worried about the recent way he's behaving when we kiss?
Q. my boyfriend and me have been in what i would say is a serious relationship for about 6 months. We are the same age and have got to the point where we kiss a lot, for a long time. recently, whilst kissing he's been pulling me a lot closer than usua...
A. 24 January 2016: If he is touching you in ways that you do not feel comfortable with (you know what im talking about here) then please bring it up with him. It is not a reason to break up if he stops doing this. If he continues doing this after you have addressed ... (read in full...)
How can I help my bestfriend? I think her Bf is behaving like text book beginnings of a domestic abuser
Q. I'm extremely worried about my best friend and her new "boyfriend." This may get complicated without names so for confusion sake's, my best friend will be A. Her ex will be D and her current boyfriend will be L. I have been best friends with ...
A. 24 January 2016: It's kind of you to be concerned about this. It is VERY ABNORMAL for a bf to be texting his ex's MOTHER and threatening to commit SUICIDE. I agree with Honeypie. TOXIC TOXIC TOXIC!
Tell A about how you feel. Explain to her that he is a potentia... (read in full...)
Should I block his number?
Q. Should I just walk away from my boyfriend he constantly keeps playing with my mind. Walk away as in block the number and not say anything what sucks is he knows where I work and so if Ignore him he will come to my job and make me feel guilty for ...
A. 24 January 2016: It doesn't matter if he does things that make you want to stay if he ALSO does things that make you want to leave. You have to tell him that he is making you feel terrible and you don't want to be in a relationship with him. Stay calm even if he ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend has aspergers. How do I get him to open up?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a while (he still lives with his parents hes 36 and has never lived on his own , he can afford to but i think its because he cant cope) and I've started to notice a lot of things about him that has made me think he's ...
A. 24 January 2016: It doesn't matter if the way he acts doesn't affect your feelings for him. Just continue with your relationship and when the time comes he may tell you. ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend suddenly making me comments and not explaining? I'm ready to leave!
Q. I don't know what to do or what to think and am trying to figure out what in the world is going on with my boyfriend. Maybe someone can help me out with this? We have been together for just over one year. Everything has been pretty good betw...
A. 24 January 2016: One word. That word is ASS. BREAK UP with him!!!!!!!!! If he makes you feel bad about yourself, WHY DO YOU WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP????? Do the right thing for YOURSELF! You will be so much happier when he's gone.... (read in full...)
Am I missing out if I never date anyone else besides my girlfriend?
Q. Hello all. I think this question might make me seem ungrateful, so first of all I want to say that I realise that I'm very lucky to have a beautiful girlfriend who I really care for. We met when I was 18, and I'd always been too shy to ask a girl ...
A. 17 January 2016: Ask yourself this: Are you in love? Do you love the girl you are dating? If the answer is yes, do NOT break up with her just to date other people!!!!! There are a million girls you can date and only one that you will fall in love with. If you have s ... (read in full...)
Red Flags? Or am I over-thinking this or being paranoid? She only wants to text
Q. Red flags,or me being paranoid, well been seeing someone for a month, now, gone on dates every week, but she only wants to text, no talking on the phone. Tried to go see her at her place, you know for a movie, she only wants to go to the bars an ...
A. 17 January 2016: She is most likely not hiding something relationship-wise from you. She may have abusive family members, sick family members, or something is wrong with her environment that she doesn't want you to see.... (read in full...)
Should I put up with his roving eye?
Q. I've been seeing an older guy (35) for the last 7 or 8 months. We have told each other we love each other and are pretty serious about a future together. But lately I have started getting really bugged to the point of p***d off at his endless ...
A. 17 January 2016: Tell him that you have seen him do it, and it disturbs you. Tell him the exact times you saw him do it and exactly how that made you feel. When he does it, quietly tell him to stop and continue what you were doing. MAKE SURE to tell him that it ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to come out and say I am gay
Q. I am very confused about who I am. Give you a history, I grew up going to Church and had beliefs installed in me, I then strayed from the Church around 18 and started going to Gay night clubs and have loads of Gay friends, during that period I...
A. 17 January 2016: Duplicate You don't need to be afraid of coming out, people today are far more accepting of gay people. You don't have to go to church. It's okay if you don't go to church, and you can still go if you want to. You can still go to church even thou... (read in full...)
I'm scared to come out and say I am gay
Q. I am very confused about who I am. Give you a history, I grew up going to Church and had beliefs installed in me, I then strayed from the Church around 18 and started going to Gay night clubs and have loads of Gay friends, during that period I...
A. 17 January 2016: You don't need to be afraid of coming out, people today are far more accepting of gay people. You don't have to go to church. It's okay if you don't go to church, and you can still go if you want to. You can still go to church even though you are ... (read in full...)
Why is this woman in my BF's fitness class suddenly jealous of me?
Q. My BF is a group fitness instructor. I take his classes. I am not sure if is paranoia but why all of a sudden - within the last month or so - does this woman in who also takes his class seem very jealous of me and competitive around me? Sh...
A. 17 January 2016: Obviously, she has her eye on your boyfriend and she's found out that you and him are together. I agree totally with Ivyblue. Don't let her ruin your day just ignore her. :)... (read in full...)
How to handle this? What other important past information has my husband hidden from me?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 years dated 4 years prior to that. Tonight, I just found out my husband has been married 3 times prior to our relationship. I knew of one marriage, but he has never openly disclosed these other 2 marriage...
A. 17 January 2016: This is serious. You need to call a lawyer& p.i. and settle out the details of his past marriages. If he did not initially tell you about these marriages, there must be something more that's being hidden from you. Good luck.... (read in full...)
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