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30-35,
*eShell
writes:Me and my boyfriend was dating for around 3 months. Before that we were best friends for 6 years. Everything went smoothly at the moment, but then when he had gotten grounded for his grades everything went downhill. I couldn't go to his house anymore after school, so I was stuck at home and him too. We talked on the phone some nights and texting and FB was one of our ways of communication. Plus we had school on the weekdays. Like i said the less we saw each other the more we went downhill. I could notice the lack of contact he'd make with me. The not talking to me when we were together, a faraway look in his eyes. I knew he was having a hard time at home, his mom had lost her job and they were trying to live day by day. Then I knew when he texted me to call him on the home phone that it was the end of our relationship. The feeling of dread had been in the back of my mind the whole week. He said we were better off as friends, and I agreed. I won't keep someone in a relationship with me when they don't want to be with me. I was fine with him on the telephone, but I hid my real emotions to everyone until they all came free when I was all by myself. The thing I'm wondering is if you guys think he broke up because of me? I don't know if I did anything wrong, like I said everything was fine, we were fine. I didn't feel like we were only friend material. Heck everyone I knew told me that. We were amazing together. I just want opinions. I really hope that he still likes me. It's been almost a year now since we dated and since then our contact has dwindled, but when we do talk it's like we never stopped, heck I feel like we are still dating and nothings changed at times. It's just all confusing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): Talk to him about it if it means that much to you.
Nobody here can tell you how he feels about you.
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