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writes:I want to visit my Ex-boyfriend in NYC. We broke up while in an LDR because neither one of us are willing to move. That remains our 'reason' for breaking up, though we also had a very volatile relationship while physically together so I'm not sure how we would have ended up despite distance. At any rate, since we've been physically apart we have missed eachother so much, both confessing how hard it is to be apart and how our dreams of starting a family together are shattered. In my heart, we probably did the right thing, but we still love eachother. He is going to be in NYC for a couple of weeks (I live in Chicago)and asked if I wanted to visit him. I really want to but we both sorta feel like, what's the point if we have no shot at a future together? I have no intention of moving and he can't live here for various reasons. So my question is this; is it a bad idea to spend the weekend with him eventhough the relationship is over for the most part?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 March 2012):
 IF you are ok with having sex with an ex (and we know that is what it will deteriorate into) and walking away then go have one last fling...
But ya know what... as much as I love sweets I know they are bad for me.... I indulge once in a while but not every time I want to.
Some folks think that once you break that it should be a clean break... but if you are both adults and both know that there is no hope but want one last good memory together.... then maybe.
however if you think it will dredge up a bunch of feelings you don't want to deal with... cut now... go no contact and move on with your life.
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