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36-40,
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writes:Ok I met this girl a couple weeks ago.I'm 25 and she's 26. We have been a multiple dates and she says she is interested in me and we have lots of fun together. She doesn't have a job and can't drive cause she doesn't have her licence. So i have to buy everything. She says shes not using me. She has me buying thing like im her boyfriend.She was addicted to hard drugs in the past and has been in trouble for it. Now is her second chance and she set on doing things right. She said she isn't seeing or really talking to other guys. When we hang out we drink but last night after I dropped her off at home she was on facebook and she changed her status to being engaged to some Guy. So what do I think about this?
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reader, Charger +, writes (26 March 2012):
Charger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk she went out Friday night for drinks with another Guy not sure if it was a date or if he was just a friend but I just found out on her Facebook she was in a bad car accident and is in icu now. She was thrown out of the car and was injured pretty bad but she has injuries but will make it. I messaged her on Facebook but she doesn't answer me it says she gets on still. What do I do or say. Like I get she's on the hospital but she's well enough to write comments on Facebook. Should I assume she doesn't want to talk to me anymore? Just so you know sometimes I have needy tendencies so maybe I'm thinking too much.
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reader, Charger +, writes (23 March 2012):
Charger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI keep her around cause I do have lots of fun with her. She told me she put she was engaged cause a Guy wouldn't leave her alone. She doesn't have a job cause she needs a license and she can't get that for some reason I forget. I've talked to her about me always paying and also on of she's playing me or not. She says she understands why I think that and says she isn't. She says that if she wasn't interested in me she wouldn't be hanging with me doing the stuff we do. I understand I can do better but I do like her. She's getting her life back on track and is trying to find a job. She said she wanted to be around better people so she doesn't fall back into old habbits. She also says she is happy with where she's at. Last night we hung out and I can't remember how the conversation started but she brought up me being insecure about myself and I had no clue what to say. I am insecure but am trying to get over it. What should I have said? I don't want her to judge me off that. I feel when I'm with her I'm myself. Lol btw lastnight she actually bought me something she bought me a beer. I know its not much but made me feel better. I'm sorry for jumping around so much just writing as it comes into my head. She says it feels like we've known eachother for a long time and I feel the same way. What should I say to her?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 March 2012):
 "Sounds" to me like she's taking YOU for a ride. Do you have your seat belt fastened??????
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reader, katiekate +, writes (20 March 2012):
 I would ask her about it. However, I wonder why you are sticking around with this girl, who clearly has some issues that you shouldn't be concerning yourself with after only a few weeks of knowing her. She is obviously irresponsible (no license, no job) and either greedy or selfish (or both), considering she has no money and expects you to buy her things. It's one thing to take a woman out and pay for the date (dinner, a movie, etc), but it's something very different to actually buy her things. If I were you, I would re-evaluate what you want in a woman. I find it hard to believe that any guy would want to keep around a girl like this... You can do better!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 March 2012):
 1. why does she not have her license?
2. why is she not working?
3. why are you buying her things she WANTS not what you want to buy for her?
as for her facebook status... you need to ask HER who this guy is that she's engaged to... my stepdaughter used to put married to her boyfriend.
facebook is not real life but it sure can wreck it.
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