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writes:My husband tries to take over all my friendships with friends and family he acts overly nice and feel like he is rally fake when he is doing this he has done this to me all the time we have been together 20 yrs. what is wrong with him he doesn't try with his own friends and family I feel he is trying to take over all the time . What can I do please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (20 March 2012):
 It took you 20 years to figure this out?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012): I have an Ex like this, he is still mates with some of my family, he did it after the divorce even more as he knew I would steer clear of them to avoid him. Making sure his prescence was still felt. He tried with my friends but mostly they saw through him after we split.
My mum used to say beware the smiling man and she was right.
He was an extremely jealous person too,controlling by fear, and my social life was limited to when he took me out, where I had to do as I was told.
I don't know how you can change things, or if he is as bad as my ex, but people aren't idiots and I think if you don't show a reaction,just be yourself, they will see past his games, and thats all it boils down to, games.Or maybe do as he does, only with his friends and family.
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