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writes:I have been talking to my best friends cousin and I really like him but he always brings up the fact that when we were younger he used to like me and now he us making me pay fir it. I'm always the one who.keeps calling him or texting him. Do you think that im trying too hard?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): He sounds a bit immature to me. I wouldn't text him at all for a while. If he does text leave it a good while before you respond. Play him at his own game.
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reader, Relationship.Chef  +, writes (21 March 2012):
 Dialogue is a two-way street. As long as there are two people participating, who cares whether you're starting the conversation or not.
The more important question is, does he respond in kind when you tell him that you like him?
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reader, Deagan +, writes (21 March 2012):
 Yes. Stop calling and texting. If he really likes you, he will try to initiate the communication you severed. Otherwise, if he doesn't contact you, you'll know he wasn't very serious about you.
You being the one to always call/text can come off as desperate. Just a fair warning.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (21 March 2012):
 If he's making you pay for it, he sounds like a revengeful guy who is manipulating this situation.
Yes you are trying to hard and i'd stop bothering with a guy like that, it sounds to me as if he is taking the right mickey out of you.
Dump him!
Hope this helps!
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