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male
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41-50,
*ukefortender
writes:Do i love my wife? We're married for five years but no one knows i have a fantasy about making love with another woman! WHat should i do? I don't want to get divorced!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012): ....so tell us the real story, because this sounds like a sugarcoated version. Are you actively engaged in a dialogue with a woman with whom you have expressed your feelings to? Texts, emails? I think you're falling for someone else hard, and this isn't just some fantasy about going outside your marriage.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 March 2012):
 It's a FANTASY... and it's PERFECTLY NORMAL in my opinion...
It is a SPECIFIC woman that you know (i.e. do you have a crush on someone)? or is it just a generalized feeling?
OR perhaps it's a porn star (Sunny Leone is quite the cutie) or a famous person?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 March 2012):
 Everyone who is in a relationship at some point casts a more than uninterested look at someone else, and even wish to have sex with that other "forbidden fruit". That happens. What matters is whether you act on that. Are you intending to act on that?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (20 March 2012):
 Lots of people think and fantasize about so so many different things that they would never do in real life, as long as they stay in your head and do not happen in real life then there is no reason anything needs to change between you and your wife.
If you thinking about doing it for real then that is different.
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