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*ustme0111
writes: When I first met my best friend I thought she was the most sweet adorible person in the world, but I'm starting to change my mind... Yesterday I invited her and my boyfriend to go swimming with me and she was non-stop flirting with him. she even came up to me and him and said to me "I thought you were going to break up with him?" and he started acting really weird around me after that.my friend even has her own boyfriend (my boyfriend's best friend). I always sit with my boyfriend, hes friends and my friend and she is always staring at him...I'm just a little worried cause sometimes he flirts back, and because of her, he is not even sure if I love him and it doesn't seem to matter what I say or do he is still acting weird...
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reader, Justme0111 +, writes (20 March 2012):
Justme0111 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Kizzie, I've known her sence the begining of last september, and the boyfriend I have is my first. Before yesterday I didn't even know that she knew how to flirt. I thought that she was actually kind of awekward around guys, even toward her own boyfriend.
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reader, Kizzie  +, writes (20 March 2012):
The question is how long have you known this girl? And is this the first boyfriend she has ever flirted with?
That was a bit harsh of her to say that, especially in front of your boyfriend.
The first thing that you could do is talk with your boyfriend and discuss your feelings for him and explain your concerns. Tell your friend to back off as she is beginning to cross the line.
Feel free to private message me.
All the best hun :)
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reader, Dragonheart +, writes (20 March 2012):
 As you noticed already, your best friend does not at all behave like a best friend!
After her "I thought you were going to break up with him?" it is clear, that she tries actively to hurt you. If i were you i would dump this 'best friend'. Then talk to your boyfriend about her lie, too.
After that (knowing that the other girl tried to tear your couple apart) he has to make a choice for the future: stand by your side and give her the cold shoulder or continue flirting with her and lose you.
Good luck and all the best for you.
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