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I know I'm too young for a boyfriend, but I still feel really lonely!

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Question - (20 March 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2012)
A female age 26-29, *edbaglover9 writes:

Since I don't have a boyfriend and you guys made me realize that I should wait for one because I'm too young. Agreed.

But lately I've been feeling so so lonely. I go to a high school where you cannot really approach people. You actually can't approach anyone even if you want to make friends. I feel lonely because all my friends have boyfriends and everyone's always busy with themselves. I don't know what to do. I don't feel like there's a real friend out there for me.

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (23 March 2012):

Redbaglover9, I assume you sit next to people in class?

I'd try to talk to your direct neighbors in class. I wouldn't start out with personal questions or remarks but just something about the class your following together for instance.

You'll notice some are not interested in talking but some others might like it.

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A female reader, Redbaglover9  +, writes (21 March 2012):

Redbaglover9 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Hey what I mean by I can't approach people in high school is that I live in a place where no one randomly goes and talks to people. You either know the person or you don't. It's like that someone would think your totally creepy or something if you randomly started talking to them. I know it sucks but I can't do anything about it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012):

Tell one of your friends who you feel!!

IT IS THAT EASY!!

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (20 March 2012):

I assume you mean that you're too young to worry about not having a bf. Agreed.

What do you mean by that you can't approach people?

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A male reader, Uncle PJ  +, writes (20 March 2012):

Uncle PJ agony auntI know high school can be a daunting place. But throwing yourself at a guy because you want/need a boyfriend will probably only leave you hurting emotionally afterwards.

I'm sure there must be a friend somewhere there for you. If not, you may have to bite the bullet and try mingling with new people to see how it goes. If it was viable, you could get a pet. They serve as great friends and talking to them does help as it enables you to get it off your chest.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012):

Hey hun, maybe you have a hobby that your interestes in and could join a club and meet other people that share that common interest? Can.i ask why you cant aproach people in high school?

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