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writes:Hey, so about 3 months ago, I started talking to this girl that I really like. I got to know her through her brother who plays in a band with me since I always go to his house.Last month, we went on our first date and it was AMAZING for both of us.Things started to move a little too fast for her, and she told me, so we both agreed to slow it down.Just last weekend, I went to a church thing with her family, and she spent the entire time with her mom and I had to hang out with her brother.. It was pretty saddening. The car ride back was very awkward.Since then, she hasn't returned any of my calls or called me. She responded to a text I sent her. I told her that I missed her and I hoped her week was going well, and she just responded by saying that she's been really busy and that it was really nice of me to say that and they she hopes to see me soon.I saw her yesterday at church, and she was pretty much avoiding me. Ater church I went up to talk to her, and I saw her look away when I was talking to her, so I thought that it was an immediate red flag. The conversation was no more than 30 sec...I can't tell if she's just been really busy, or if she's losing interest. =(.I mean, she's always been really busy because of dance, voice lessons, school presidency, but she used to make time for me every night to talk on the phone, but that just doesn't happen at all anymore.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2011): Hey, I'm in my early 20's and sort of going through the same thing, unfortunately relationships are complicated things at any age! I try to respect the guy I am dating and give him space, make him wonder what i'm doing as well as the other way around! What I do knoe is that if you crowd someone, they sometimes want to push further away, what I beleive also is that things work out/don' work out for a reason (although it is a horribe feeling if it doesn't work out, trust me its not the end of the world. You have to take risks sometimes but be safe in the knowledge that nothing terrible lasts forever, and when things are great, life is wonderful. Give her space and see what happens!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2011): Well, she does sound extremely busy.
I think something happened but you just don't know or realize what that was. I think with her business and her recent behavior, I would say it is a little of both. I can't say why. Sometimes when you're a teen things just don't work out very quickly for no apparent reason.
Really teen dating is more often then not "practice" dating. I know you don't want to hear that, but it is true.
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