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Haven't had any male interest since I was 14

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Question - (17 October 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

anon because I don't want anyone I know to see this thread :(

Basically what the title says. I'm a 19 year old heterosexual female and I haven't had any male interest - ie. males asking me out / going on dates since I was 14. No one has asked for my number in years.

I'm not stunning and I don't have an amazing body but I don't have a seriously horrible personality. I take care of myself, wash, wear a little bit of makeup. I'm not shy and I'm confident with who I am. I talk to loads of guys and show interest and they never show any interest whatsoever.

I have hobbies - I like to cook, I enjoy photography. I go out a lot and meet new people but no one's ever interested.

I'm not interested in casual sex, I'd much prefer to just have a boyfriend - someone who there is mutual affection and attraction with - like so many other girls my age. I know this isn't necessary but to not have any interest whatsoever is really depressing.

I just want to know what could be putting them off me :(

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2011):

angelDlite agony auntok, maybe it is that all the other girls have grown up too and now you have more competition or are you known as a girl who doesn't put out, where as the other girls do? I AM NOT SUGGESTING YOU START TO - just merely offering an explanation as to your current boy-drought.

you sound like a great girl, just be careful not to get a negative attitude about all this though, a little CONFIDENCE can go a LONG way

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