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writes:I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf of three years. some times some of the stuff he does makes me question if he really is in love with me. he doesn't put as much effort into the relationship, makes me feel like I'm not appreciated, puts me through so much, pays a lot more attention to his friends, and ignores me at times.I talked to him about how I felt and I asked him how did he know he was in love with me or to describe the feeling or what he felt for me and he couldn't answer. and I became upset because it hurt that he didn't know what to say. he said I was over exaggerating, that I could think or believe whatever I wanted.am I over thinking this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 October 2011):
 have you guys met in real life?
how far apart are you?
how often do you see each other
is he your age or older? or yonger?
are you 18 or 21? (because there can be a huge difference between the two and if you have been at this for 3 years with him and are just 18 there is a big difference between what I would say to someone who was 18 when they started this LDR
what are your plans to close the gap?
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reader, ladii.lala +, writes (17 October 2011):
you might be over thinking it . like every little thing he probably says make you wonder do he really love you or not. just tell him what you been thinking lately. dont drown him in questions cause that just might push him away from you like you dont trust him.
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reader, Babs1 +, writes (17 October 2011):
Go with your instinct. If your feeling unappreciated or ignored there is a reason for it. Sounds like you both need some space from the relationship. Long distance relationships normally don't work. Neither of you are getting the things you need and it is difficult to keep feelings for someone who is not around in your day to day life, maybe he has trouble telling you this. When distance grows it is unavoidable. The best thing would be to take a break from it.
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