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writes:[Mod Note: 3 questions merged into one]Quite a personal question... but here we go, pubic hair is so annoying. I do my bikini line and trim, but it still feels like there is too much. How can you trim "neatly"? Sometimes I feel like being completely waxed or shaven looks like a little girl and is weird, but sometimes I think it would be best. Girls, what's your own experience or advise? Guys, what do you prefer?I know this is a medical question, If it doesn't go away soon, I will go see my doctor, but last week, my boyfriend kissed my chest for the first time, the next morning I noticed a pimple like rough rash on my breasts, it's started to fade alittle after using antiseptic cream. I haven't changed any of the skin or hair products I use, or eaten anything different. Is it just a random conquincidence or did his kissing bring this rash out? Okay, I know this isn't embarrassing bodies, but I don't know who else to talk to. But okay... my Body is very nice I love it, I think I have a good figure and I have self confidence. But I have a raised mole high up on the inside of my thigh... it's not cute. It's not a problem at the momement, 'cause no one is gonna be seeing that area. But one day I will be sexually active, I am worried that if a guy ever goes down on me then he'll find it off putting. But I, myself find it off putting. My mum has said I can go ask a doctor and see I can get it removed, do you think I should?
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reader, KittieS +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Invest in a bikini trimmer, it doesn't cause a rash, keeps the look of barely their hair - i tried the all gone look once and felt incredibly un-sexy. Asda sell one for £5 "how low you go" is up to you! Personsly I prefer a well trimmed looked, as it feels nicer and is more hygienic in my opinon
Rash could be caused by stubble, your skin is soft and a few male whisked can cause irritation
As for the mole go see your GP and get it checked out if your worried.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Ok regarding the first question about your public hair, really every girl is different and likes different looks. So why don't you play around with a few different ideas and see which one suits you. Shaving your bikini line can sometimes cause a rash so maybe try some wax and see if that makes a difference.
Question two regarding the rash on your chest. Does your boyfriend have a beard or some stubble on his chin? If he does well then that could be the cause of the rash, just friction with him kissing you. If not well then I doubt that it would have had anything to do with him kissing you.
Question three regarding your mole. If you are quite self concious about it and you feel it would effect you when you do start having a physical relationship well then go and visit your doctor to see what options you have regarding getting it removed.
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reader, eek +, writes (17 October 2011):
 1. Personally i prefer shortly trimmed or smooth. The reason is if i go down on a woman and she has long hair there is nothing worse than getting hair stuck in my teeth or mouth (personally it puts me off putting my mouth down there a little)
3. Go and talk to your Dr about the mole. If its standing up its good to get rid of it as its possible it could cause problems in later life. Also its nothing to be sacred about having one removed. :-)
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