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writes: So I'm a girl and I hang out with guys all day so they got me to watch porn and then I started to watch lesbian porn. It turns me on more to see a girl naked then seeing a guy. but I don't want to be lesbian. what does this mean if I get turned on by girls???Feel free to message me I need help!!!!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 No, it does not mean that you are a lesbian. Porn is porn, porn is not the real world. What you are stimulated by in a fantasy (which is what porn is) is not necessarily what you are stimulated by in real life. Unless you have fallen in love with a girl in real life you are not a lesbian, or bisexual for that matter. Finding women attractive does not mean you are a lesbian.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (17 October 2011):
I think it's pretty normal. I've always gotten more turned on by lesbian porn than male/female porn. Also, a lot of the men they put in porn aren't exactly the most attractive--I mean seriously, why would I want to watch Ron Jeremy have sex? Gross!
I was worried about it too when I was younger but I came to find that in "real life" I'm not sexually attracted to women, nor do I care to have sex with another women. I enjoy having sex with men and am very attracted to them.
I think watching something is different than actually enacting it. Just because you like to watch movies with gun fights doesn't mean you want to go have a gun fight.
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 it's normal to get turned on by girl porn,studies show that girls get turned on by guy/girl porn...unlike guys..
anyways,it all comes back to real life,maybe if you try to do something about it in real life,you'll see that you won't be too much into it..porn is different from real life..
you might be a lesbian,who knows..well you won't until you go out in 'real life'.or maybe bisexual..
but you can never assume that from just watching a porn video,even if it was girl on girl..cause it's totally normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2011): Heeey I'm slightly older than you, 20, but I can tell you that at your age I was too turned on by girls more than guys and I questioned my sexuality but I've come to realize that (naturally) a woman's body is more sensual than a man's (though this can be argued!) so it's universally attractive and beautiful. I still enjoy watching lesbian porn and I'm in a hetero relationship! ;) Don't worry about it!
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reader, jumpsuit01  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 You could easily be bi sexual. Or just prefer the look of a woman. Im bi sexual, i enjoy both men and women, but the womans body is more attractive. Most women will agree, stright, bi, or lesbian.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2011): First of all, take a deep breath and calm down.You're at that age in wish everything becomes new and exciting and many teenagers to get sexually confused, or a lot of girls I know of, like to try out things with girls as well. Does this mean that they're bisexual? I guess so. But what does it matter?Do you get attracted to guys in real life? Not on porn, but do you develop feelings for males? I've heard watching porn can be good for adolescents, but it's something I never liked. Watching men in porn, I found disgusting (I hate porn to be honest alltogether), I'm quite a shy person, and I was never really attracted to the male organs (I guess at that stage in my life I was obviously not ready for sex etc). Seeing female bodies though perform in porn, I was much more comfortable with because well, she's got all the lady parts I have, males were something I wasn't comfortable with yet. Just letting you know though, I am definitely straight. But maybe it's something like what I felt, watching lesbians is probably making you feel more comfortable - so as I said, don't stress.In porn also, I don't find male bodies attractive at all. Everythings so explicit. I have my boyfriend now, and upon falling in love with him, and gradual exploration of his body, I've fallen in love with his body also, penis and everything. When about a year ago, I was worried I'd never be sexually attracted to a man. I knew I wasn't a lesbian, I knew I was straight, but I wasn't interested in sex or sexually attracted to anything. Everyone is different at your age. Everyone experiences these things differently. So just because you enjoy watching lesbians getting off, does not mean you are one yourself. Just relax, see how things go in your life. If you are a lesbian, it may take years for you to figure out unfortunaty. Or perhaps you just need the right man to walk in your life to realise you are attracted to men in that way.
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Do you find women attractive? Does the idea of YOU personally being with a woman? Does the idea of touching her, doing down on her, having sex with her, appeal to you?
Do you think you'd actually want to be in a relationship with a woman? These are the questions that indicate if you're a lesbian or not.
Naked women tend to be more sexual than a naked man. It's more associated in our brain that Naked women=sex. That could very easily be why you're turned on by it.
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