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writes:So I am hooking up with this guy but really I do not know what I am doing. I really like him and he feels the same way too, but still. He's experienced and I feel scared. We tried to get it in but I couldn't take it. I'm completely lost and he said that it felt like I wasn't into it, but really I am. Any tips on what I should do to show him that I am into it or how I can not be scared and what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've known him for the past 3 years. And I really like him, he's being really patient with me so that helps it's just that he has done so much for me I want to give him something to make him go wow.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 I think you're fooling yourself here. You're young, he's experienced and you're scared. No wonder nothing happens!
Perhaps take the time to get to know him a bit before hooking up with him. Maybe this is your body's way of telling you to slow down?
If you're nervous and tense, nothing is going to happen. And I don't think you need to look for ways to make this fear go away. It's there for a reason.
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