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writes:Recently, my girlfriend told me that she used to be Striptease Dancer gour years back. She remained in that professional for one year before dumped it once she fell in love with me. We are together since July 2008. Even before she told me, two years back I had already got to know about that incidentally and it got me sad that why she didn’t tell me but didn’t confront her thinking that gone is gone and all now matter is the she loves me like crazy and committed with me . When two weeks back, she told me about that , she was crying non stop but I told her that nothing from the past should hamper our march towards brighter future. Last night, I proposed her to marry me and she accepted my offer. Guys don’t you think I have taken the correct decision ? I am keenly counting on your precious opinion on this. Thank you!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Yes of course you made the right decision! She loves you and you love her and she quit her job to be with you because you mean more than that job! She most likely did it because she really needed the money. You made the right choice.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Yes yes yes you made the right decision! She gave it up because she loved you!
My friend is a very successful lawyer, she had no financial support to get her through university and so she "danced" her way through it, she still worries about it but she did it to become the amazing woman she is today.
I think it is wonderful you have the attitude what has gone is gone, we all fo things were not proud of for many reasons.
Enjoy your life together!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2011): You have made a great decision! She even stopped dancing because she fell in love you with! That's huge. Those dancers can make a lot of money, but I think many times at their own emotional expense.
You are right. The past is gone, and you can now look to a better future!
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reader, landomando +, writes (17 October 2011):
Yes you have made the right choice. And dont let her past effect your relationship. She didnt know you then you cant change it. But you did make the correct decision. and i am pleased you didnt let her past effect your decision to marry her! Congratulations!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Off course you have made the right choice. What is in the past should be left there. Maybe she regrets being a strip tease dancer in the past but obviously there is a reason she wanted to do this, more likely it was because she needed the money. Don't let it affect your relationship now.
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