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writes:I have a thing with a senior, and I am a freshman (we're both in college). I really, really like him. People say that you meet the person you're supposed to be with in college (now I know this doesn't apply to everyone). People say that you "just know" when you've found the right person and that you'll "just know" that you're meant to be together forever. I don't know... I can't tell if just because this is a whole new experience for me, if this isn't real and I'm trying to make it more than it is or if there really may be something here. Since we're not dating, I don't know how to bring up topics like "What are you doing after college?" or how to go about seeing if he wants a relationship or not (since we never talked/ talk about it). I just am so inexperienced in all of this relationship stuff and I just don't know how to go about everything. Should I give up on it since he is a senior, and I'm only a freshman who has 4 more years of my undergraduate? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionha yeah... lately i tend to over think everything. It just scares me how much I like him and afraid that my feelings are too much and I don't know how to suppress my feelings. I miss this feeling of liking someone, but I don't miss this worrying. I need to relax haha.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Just ask him if he's like to go get a cup of coffee. See where it goes from there. You do realize you are kind of over-thinking all this, don't you? I mean you haven't really even talked to the guy, maybe you will change your mind about him once you get to know him. Who knows? But I suggest you ask him out for coffee.
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