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writes:I'm 17 and I've only ever had two boyfriends. The first realtionship I was in was really innocent even though it lasted a long time. He was really respectful and chivalrous, and we never really even thought of moving past making out (and letting him "cop a feel" every once in a while). But now, I'm dating a new guy and our relationship is completely different. There's a lot of sexual tension and we can't help but want to... do things. We haven't had sex yet - but we have gotten incredibly close. The only thing though is that I get insanely nervous right before we do the deed and I ask him to stop. I really do want to have sex with him, I just can't keep myself from getting so scared. Do you guys have any advice or tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, Babs1 +, writes (17 October 2011):
New things are scary its normal. Once you do it it won't seem as scary. You will have lots of learning about your own sexuality once you do, but there has to be that first step. Don't psych yourself out, if you want to do it, do it. If your not sure give yourself time.
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