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writes: My boyfriend wants to have video sex but i'm nervous and don't know what all to do in video sexCan anyone describe the feeling of having video sex???and What all can a girl do in video sex to please her man???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone I decided against video sex and he said he’s fine with it because if I’m uncomfortable with it he won’t pressure me about it. Again thank you all
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reader, person12345  +, writes (27 December 2011):
 Do you mean webcam sex while apart? For the reasons mentioned below, I'd stick to phone sex since that's a bit harder to capture and distribute. With a webcam he could be sitting there taking screenshots the whole time and you'd have no idea until it winds up in the wrong hands. During phone sex generally you masturbate and describe what it is you're doing and feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk sounds like good advise I'll talk to him and he should understand i ain't totally into it thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): You do know this will end up on the Internet right? Without a doubt it will.If you can guarantee that you will be with this guy for the rest of your life (which is impossible) then go ahead.Look the amount of questions we get on this site from girls who sent pictures to their ex that have turned up online is a joke. There are tonnes of websites devoted to pictures and videos of ex girlfriends and they all say the same thing too "He really wanted it and I just wanted to please him"Unless you want to become a porn star and you don't mind others seeing the video, his friends the guys around your town and city, your boss at work finding out about it, your family etc. Then don't do it. I don't care how much you love or trust him, he will always have the power to do that and if you were to break up in any kind of bad way then that will be online.If you do decide to do it. I look forward to seeing it on one of the many porn video sites that it will be uploaded to. So in that respect make sure you have your hair and makeup nicely done and make sure you get good angles and stuff too. I like good angles, it's good to get a nice view of things. Make sure the lighting is good so we can see all of the action and smile too, so we can see you're enjoying it.
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reader, sweetness123 +, writes (27 December 2011):
 Hi well id suggest watching a porn either alone or together. I am older my boyfriend suggested this it kinda turned me on us both but the video stays at home I found it enhanced our sex life. Just be yourselves I was soooo nervous so watching a porn helped me with lets sau instructions how to really turn him on and seeing him in awe so turned me on. So surprise him watch a porn by yourself all else will be just you two and fall in place it is exciting watching yourselves helps with shyness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): Do *you* really want to do this? Because to be honest, from reading your post it doesn't sound like you're at all sure about it. You don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with for the sake of pleasing your partner! If you want to give video sex a go but aren't quite ready yet, don't be afraid to tell your boyfriend. He shouldn't want you to do something you don't enjoy.
I haven't done this before, but I've heard that while secret taping can add excitement to the romantic life of a committed couple, it can cause problems in an already unstable relationship. You have a few pros and cons to consider. On the plus side, making such a tape could draw you closer together. I guess the feeling of filming something "forbidden" could heighten the intimacy of your relationship. And of course there's the thrill of a private screening.
On the other hand though, tapes can get stolen, or leaked. What if you and your boyfriend break up? What will become of the video? Then there's the possibility of awkwardness during filming. It might seem like a good idea at first, but self-consciousness could dampen the mood. Plus, there could be embarrassment during viewing!
Ultimately, only the two people involved can decide whether video sex would be a good idea or not. Filming one of the most intimate acts of your relationship could have a negative effect though, so I think you and your boyfriend need to consider the pros and cons at length first. Good luck with whatever you choose :) Take care x
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