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*lossals
writes:he came to our school and after a month we talked and kinda got together.. Its been three months and through that time he was so busy with two jobs and also said he has to get use to it because its gonna be that way when hes older.he told me he thinks we shouldn't see each other anymore.. but still wants me to be happy and be friends.. is it a possibility we can become friends.. or maybe later on friends with benefits?i know i realized that i don't want to be committed either but still get to know him?
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reader, N91  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 Listen, some guys can have an incredible trait which allows them to literally not give a flying f**k about the feelings of a woman, of course this isn't true for every guy, but he's already told you that he only wants to be your friend.
This means that he will be screwing around with you and maybe other women as well and I'm 99% sure that you would start to develop feelings for this guy, as sex has a tendency to do that. Then you'll end up coming clean about those feelings and chances are he won't reciprocate (as he has already told you, friends only).
Leaving you craving this guy and him not being too fussed about your feelings. This may sound a little dramatic but that's pretty much the path it will follow in a nutshell, like I said, I've been there.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 fun should not include casual sex at your age.
as for heartbreak... if you sleep with him you will fall in love with him. it's the nature of the beast...
if you guys are FWB he will never care about you the way you will grow to care about him and hence your heart will be broken.
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reader, jlossals +, writes (27 December 2011):
jlossals is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy would it end In a heartbreak?
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reader, jlossals +, writes (27 December 2011):
jlossals is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut I might wanna have some fun later on?
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reader, N91 +, writes (27 December 2011):
Take it this is the same guy as the other post?
Do not get involved in a FWB, I've had personal experience in one and can tell you now it will end in heartbreak.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 December 2011):
i agree just be friends.. none of this FWB stuff.
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