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writes:I feel really silly having to ask this kind of question, its not even really a question i just need advice. Also i apologise if its long. I'm 21 and met my guy friend 6 months ago, i've developed strong feelings for him. He's been brought up with traditional values, hes a perfect gentleman (he's 25). I've told him i liked him once before and he said he was "seeing someone else", which it turned out he wasnt, that was 5 and a half months ago. He kind of brought it up again though 2 weeks ago when we were on our xmas night out and it was just the 2 of us at the table it was kind of subtle just a comment about how nice i looked and that he thought about what he said that time i text him about liking him and i asked him what he meant but other people came back to the table and he went aw it doesnt matter. He kept holding me all night though and constantly getting others to leave the table so we could talk. We kind of talked all night and it was so nice and he helped me to the taxi after i had a funny turn with some strobe lights. I just dont want to tell him how i feel and get rejected all over again, we were doing some major flirting that night and ive never seen him so happy. Ive seen him at college after that and he would glance over and smile and walk beside me or hold my arm so i'd pull back from the crowd to talk to him. Do you think theres any chance he may like me and if i should tell him again that i like him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): Why don't you try going on a night/day out again instead of just asking him outright? If he seems as flirty (and yes it does sound like he could like you) then bring up the text again, see what he says and what's changed his mind.
Also if he had been drinking then remember he might of been acting more interested than he actually is, so I wouldn't be blunt with the question and definitely wouldn't ask in a text.
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