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41-50,
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writes:my friend who is a female as i am admitted that she liked me well i never liked her like that and we stopped talkin well, she contacted me after a year of anger and biterness and not speaking she wanted to date me and i decline well she calls and says hey lets catch up and i said im going to decline and then she said oh i just wanted to say hi and so i went a head and broke it down for her i told her i dont feel comfortable around her due to her threatening me as in (TRY ME if you left them) and lyin to her family sayin that she dont know why i dont come around etc... but i stated that we can speak on the phone until i felt comfortable starting back to hang out with her. and she replied its okay, everything is fine. no hard feelings and now she wont speak to me. she never apologized for the way she treated me either. now wouldnt you think that she had something set up to possibly hurt me and still may try and hurt me? would you watch your back after something like that? would you give her another chance? wouldnt you find it odd that now she dont want to talk to you, why would someone take that personally if there were no feelings period. wouldnt you think this person was still in love with you? im 28 shes 33 and has 2 kids. this is like a slap in the face. theres times i miss her but shes not understanding how i feel, its like its her way or no way based off how everything went? whats your take, i did text her happy holidays she said same to you and miss spelled you. i never thought id lose someone over something like this,.why would she be so ANGRY? why cant she accpet a friendship? sorry edit, she replied its okay, everything is fine no harm done. you all think she may try and hurt me after all of this unnecessary anger? ?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 Hey well i think you definately did the right thing by not agreeing to go meet up with her straight away.
She clearly thought she had a chance with you and reacted very badly when you made it clear she didnt, but that is not your fault, its hers and she should accept that you dont feel the same and if it was me i would want an apology for her behaviour too.
I think it is best if you just kept contact with her to minimum as she clearly has strong feelings and doesnt handle them well.
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