A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:So this guy I have had a "crush" on for three years told me on christmas that he cares about me and wants me.But he has a girlfriend who is manipulative (they have had a break in the summer because she cheated).And I told him that I have cared about him for awhile now and then he just told me that he wishes he could act upon his feelings, but he can't. So basically the whole explosion of feelings was just a mind game...what should I do? Continue to be in his life, just stop, or what?
View related questions:
a break, christmas, has a girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): I think you're completely wasting your time with this guy... if he *really* had any desire to act upon his feelings, he would! I mean, if he wanted you that much, he'd ditch the manipulative girlfriend (why would anyone want to be with a cheater anyway?) and get with you instead. Don't have anything more to do with him. Three years is too long to be crushing on someone whose feelings are that shallow. You can do better :) Good luck and take care x
|
