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anonymous
writes:Why is it that I miss my ex sooo much that i keep on thinking about him but when he comes back I always realize that I don't like him anymore, i find him disgusting and that I don't care if he disappears forever? Do some people experience this? What is really my true feelings for this person?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): When he is away you remember only the good memories and start missing him.When he is in your life you realize in spite of the good memories he is still the same guy with the same problems.An ex is an ex for a reason.Leave him be.
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reader, goowes +, writes (1 May 2010):
 Why do you miss him so desperately, why do you get so disgusted when he's near. Look at the intensity of each feeling and moderate them, it might look different then. You have to manage your emotions, sounds like. They can't be what rules your life decisions or other people lives.
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reader, cnith +, writes (1 May 2010):
 I think you're a masochist for some reason... You tell me why.
Why would you want a man who disgusts you beyond repair?
What is it you're REALLY missing? A guy on your bed, in your body, what? You're not missing HIM, that's for sure. He's just the easy choice.
Dig in a little deeper sister... the answer is within you. And leave the poor guy alone. Let him find someone who really loves him. And it's not you.
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reader, SeaCalm +, writes (1 May 2010):
Dear 'Love You, Love You Not'......in order to be in a relationship you need to have a level of maturity, if you find your partner 'disgusting', and 'wish he would disappear'..this is not a sign that you want to be with him, you missing him sounds like you like the idea of being with him rather than him, i would be mature and let this guy go now before you hurt him in the longrun..both of you will be better off going your seperate ways, find a relationship where you at least like the person most of the time, whether they are away or not
Good Luck
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