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Is he just being nice to me, ...or does he actually like me?

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Question - (1 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i've recently met this guy (one of my brother's friends), and to me personally he isn't that good looking; i never gave a second thought to ever liking him. situations have lead to the present, and he is now staying with us for a bit until he gets back on his feet.

at first, he pretty much avoided me, but lately things have changed... a lot! when we watch a movie (me, my brother, cousin, and this guy) I catch him looking at me to see my reaction to what's happening in the film (if i laugh, he smiles or laughs as well, though he is looking at me and not the tv). other times i will just catch him looking at me with no real reason, i smile, he smiles back and then we both look away. he brings me thing back from the store, even though I never asked for them (my own brother doesnt even do that). he whispered something in my ear even though there was no one else around to hear it. when i start talking, even if it's not to him, he looks at me. he laughs at everything i say,...

the list could go on, but these are the "main" things that happen.

recently, within the last week (before he started staying with us), he started dating a girl... so yes, he has a girlfriend, but what could all i've explained above mean?? is he trying to be nice to me? does he like me, or think he could?

I'm 18, and never been great at reading guys, whats up??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010):

Yes honey give it a shot cos he is afraid of making the first move why not help him out dear and see where it will lead too

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A female reader, Beccccccy  Australia +, writes (1 May 2010):

Beccccccy  agony aunt There no doubt in my mind hes HOT for you , but I think maybe he thinks you dont feel the same .

I would MAKE SURE he knows you are keen , focus on him and look directly into his eyes when you talk to him , give his arm a gentle touch ..

Work it from there and let nature takes its course ..Hes hot for you alright babe!

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