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writes:dont know were to start,i wrte in a few days ago about i met a musician who approached me ask me to tex him and he was`nt attached!so i texed him and no reply texed again still no reply i hate waiting and i know he was going to germany for 5wks soon so i rang him we had a chat and a laugh. he also told me he had bumbed into his ex and he was`nt quite sure how things lie,he said if i was to ask him was he attached he said he does`nt know.... then he said when he comes back from germany would i go for a coffe were i met him i said ok,but i dont want to if he has taken up with his ex.the trouble is i really got butterflies when i see him and do like him, but i will not do the ringing when he comes home i will wait and see if he contacts me.he also said he has never had a proper job so i am wondering how he is living he must have to rely on bookings or somethink.... i get told i am atteractive but he is not that much to go mad about but i like his ways i am very conservative get ask out but i either give the wrong number or dont meet them but this guy has got to me and i dont know what to do if he goes back with his ex if it did`nt work out the first time who is to say it will again!!!
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reader, Midge +, writes (3 May 2010):
 Remember, sometimes you dont immediately have a spark in a relationship, sometimes that spark has to grow. Dont count out the teacher! Perhaps go out on a date, and if after that date there isnt even a smidgeon of a spark, then its not gonna happen! Whats the harm?
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reader, loreal +, writes (3 May 2010):
loreal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for the reply and keep what you have said in mind,he is not always away and this is a yearly thing he does goes to germany has been going for the last 14yrs.... i will not do any phoneing and if he does get intouch i will not jump been having a think! the only thing is i have been asked out by a teacher he is quite nice but the chemistry was not there not for me anyway.... x
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reader, Midge +, writes (3 May 2010):
My boyfriend is a musician in a very well known UK band. People think its great going out with a musician, and I can say it has its pro's but it most certainly has its cons. More cons than pro's! So think long and hard if you want to go out with someone like that!
If I were in your shoes and he really has gotten under your skin, STOP phoning NOW!!!!! Wait till he gets home, and see if he calls! For goodness sake, dont be running after him. It makes you look needy!
If, when he gets back, and he calls, then he is interested. If he doesnt, that means he is back with his ex and not looking for anything else at this time. But seriously, think about whether you want to go out with a guy who's financial status will always be uncertain because his work isnt always steady, and he is away more than he is home if the band takes off. He will be around loads of woman all the time, so if you are the jealous kind, wrong guy, wrong job!
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