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writes:My roommate and her boyfriend broke up a week or so ago after a little over a year together. They still talk to each other, but are not officially "seeing each other." Last night her ex IMed me on facebook and we started talking, and it seemed friendly, but I was worried in the back of my mind that he had other intentions...He knew that my roommate was gone for the weekend and hinted about coming over with hookah (we had all done it once when they were together). And he said something about me having a nice body and asked if I worked out a lot...so I just said yeah I try to stay in shape and stuff, and eventually I just said I had to go. Then he told me how he was probably just going to hang out in his apartment and maybe do hookah since he was bored, and that I should "hit him up" that night if I didn't have anything to do....Was he hitting on me or just bored/being friendly? Should I tell my roommate when she gets back that he IMed me?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (2 May 2010):
Yeah, he was definitely hitting on you. This is something you don't want to get in the middle of and it's really messed up of him to be hitting on you like that only a week after they broke up. It's really inappropriate of him in general. If I was in your shoes, I think I wouldn't tell her yet. If he does it again, then I think you should let her know that he's been contacting you and trying to hang out. I would almost find it a little insulting that he would contact your like that...what kind of person does he think you are?!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (2 May 2010):
 Ugh...he sounds like a real winner. :P
Yes, if you and your roommate are friends, and they're still talking, you should tell her what happened.
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