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male
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36-40,
*otton223
writes: so there's this girl i really like who goes to my university. i asked her out to lunch a week ago (and it went well) which i paid for even though she offered to split the bill. I've been txting her every couple days just to see how shes doing and flirt a bit, i always initiate the conversations. We made some plans to celebrate next weekend after our finals. i wanted to take her to Six Flags. What i wanted to know is would it be too much to buy her a ticket and pay for everything? i dont want to come off as desperate or anything. i want to date this girl but haven't told her how i feel because this would only be the second time we have gotten together and i am kinda shy and don't want to scare her off. Thanks any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (2 May 2010):
You're doing the right thing, and I'm thinking she's thinking that there might be something to this for you. You're doing great by taking her to specific places, especially if you've talked to her and figured out what lights her boat.
Just take some time. The fact that she's letting you pay is good in your favor. Enjoy the chase, and you'll know when the time is right to tell her you like her. :)
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