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writes:oooki fall in 'love' after a one night...this is what happens (all the time)...i look, he looks, we have fun, if he just fcks me then leaves, Good.but if...i look, he looks, we have fun: but if we eg hold hands-talk about our livesand i get kissed on the forehead etcetcetc-then after fun i get a one-last-short-on-the-forehead-or-lips-kiss-before-he-leaves...etc those kinda things?kkkaboom, i fall into the hole...side effect from a one-night-stand loli feel sad'n'all.....this happens everytime some guy does those kinda things.....like susan mayer said from desperate housewives something like'after one date i go start planning our wedding and honeymoon' (well...se x in my case...but yeah lol)this happen to anyone? how do you get out of this thing, i hate it,
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): Your feelings are a result of oxytocin, the neurochemical that womens' brains (and mens', to a lesser extent) secrete in order to bond with their partners and babies. You literally become physically addicted to somebody when you snuggle, etc.
So it's important not to engage in "promiscuous" sex not only because of the risk of disease, but also because scientific studies have shown that an increased number of pre-marital sexual partners corresponds with a higher chance of divorce once you marry. Your brain will literally no longer be wired for deep, long-term intimacy and commitment. Find a boyfriend; one night stands are bad for your physical and emotional health.
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reader, cnith +, writes (1 May 2010):
 you start finding relationships, not one nighters. Sounds to me you want more than sex. Get your self respect and find yourself a companion, a lover, a friend. Not someone to whom you're just a fuck.Good luck to you mate. I hope you find him. He's out there. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): Honey, You feel infatuated with the guy, you don't know him after one night so it can not be love. I think you long for a deeper commitment and the only way to do that is to not rush into bed. Next time your eyes meet your next conquests sultry, lusty gaze you give him your phone number. If he calls within 3 days for a date you have something to hold on to and it's not his dick that night either, rather grab his hand and have a wonderful kiss. Women give sex to get love, men give love to get sex......I'm sure it works the same when you are gay.
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