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*arsh91
writes:hi...i'm a 20 year old virgin guy, my girlfriend is virgin too....recently i oobserved lots of hints by her that she want to have sex with me, i too want to have sex with her....now my problem is that my foreskin is still very tight, i can pull it back even in full erection but it is painful, my friends told me that they dont have such problems and they can pull their foreskin without any pain....so i'm worried about it....is it normal ???can i have sex with my girlfriend in such conditions ??
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (1 May 2010):
 You don't have to pull your foreskin back to have sex. My guy CHOOSES to have his left fwd/covering coz he simply prefers it. It will slide back and forth a bit over the head depending what you are doing, but it may only go to the point of tightness, not beyond, and maybe not hurt you at all. The sliding back and forth could actually feel nicer for you than having it back the whole time, ... this is the reason my guy likes his left fwd anyway.
I certainly would not go getting it chopped off as a first reaction tho even if it does hurt a little, .... you can try stretching it a bit each day to loosen it, ...and as far as my man goes, .. he said his was a bit tight until his late teens and loosened up naturally as he aged, ... so you might only be hitting the age yourself where things might start to naturally change in the next year or so.
I also would not pay attention to people frivolously saying chop off your body bits coz women prefer it and it feels better. That is a load of generalized crap, ... foreskins are fun to play with imo, and there are more things you can do with an uncut guys bits to create pleasurable sensations for them than a guy with the chop, ... uncut guys are generally more sensitve so it is a bonus for them too, ...and I can't feel any noteworthy difference during intercourse b/n a cut or uncut guy, and would be surprised and doubtful if anyone really could.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): I dont know; maybe the hurting has to do with you being a virgin.But get circumcised.I and a lot more girls prefer circumcised guys,they feel better.Your girlfriend will appreciate that.Plus,circumcision reduces the chances of you getting infections and STIs,and even the problem of pulling your foreskin back.
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