A
female
age
51-59,
*oowes
writes:Why does he accuse me of wanting to cheat and tell me he doesn't think I want to be with him and and that he thinks I am not turned on by him anymore. Is this a projection and this is how he talks all diverse areas of our relationship, his ideas are nothing close to my feelings and thoughts. I scared because if they are then he doesn't want to be here and I see it and he doesn't. Because he professes full decided love and committment. He also is grumpy alot by me and doesn't physical affection me very often. He'll actually get full blown angry at me for percieved lusting of othersHe is not getting erect during no matter my efforts, says its not me and is turned on in head. What do I think of that? Reply to this Question
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (1 May 2010):
 End it.
He is jealous and angry all the time.
He need to calm down and become an adult.
Don't put up with it.
Move on.
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male
reader, rcn +, writes (1 May 2010):
 Get something clear. If he does not want to be there anymore, it's not because of what you have or have not done. He can blame it on you, lusting after others or whatever, that's only a way of not accepting responsibility.
Id ask him directly, find out what's going on with him. And if he does want to be there, and is developing these misguided feelings, you two need to get to the bottom of why he's feeling the way he is, and clear the air.
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