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anonymous
writes:There is this boy that I like in my chemistry class but we have like a hundred students in this class so I'm too shy to talk to him and sit next next to him. I have such a huge crush on him but I have never approach a guy before and this is a university school I'm attending so I don't know if he does have a girlfriend or not. Advice anyone ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): Well just sit next to him one day and play it cool ask hey im ... i see you alot how are you and stuff like that keep it casule and then just have a lauff and be like well your gf lucky or you got a gf round her then and make it as a convo insted and if he has you have not embassed your self or anything.
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talk to his mates and find out but in a way you dont give it away to much and stuff or ask to borrow a pen or something just to get you in there to talk.
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look for signs to see if he likes you like does he look over to you or not ? has he smiled at you? because then you will know if there is something there or not.
But if i was you just talk casule
Or you could allways get your mates to helpp find out if he likes you thats what i used to do in school but dont let them be to ovious or then it might emmbaress you
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): Wait until your class lets out and try to catch him alone while he's travelling through the hallway. This will open up both the fact that very few people, if any, will over-hear anything you say to each other, as well as the opportunity to try to be heard by him while he's not distracted by any studies, teaching or other goings on in the class. Be brief when you speak the first time, giving him something more to wait for, and don't ask him if he has a g/f, because it doesn't matter if he does if all you want to do initially is get to know him. Just ask him if he wants to go for a coffee or sit on a bench and have lunch together,..something that will give you more time to talk to him and get to know him. If he rejects that offer because he admits he has a g/f then oh well, don't let it bother you, cuz at least you got that answer, if that happens, and you won't have to wonder.
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