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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I'm 14...Well I have recently joined CCF (Combined Cadet Force, which is like Army, Air Force and and Navy training)And there's this guy.. He's two years older than me, and he helps train the new-ish people. He's just so nice and and sweet and and amazing ...Well, I really like him, and I want him to like me back, but how can I do that??I already stand out cause I'm the one of the only girls who attend, but, how to I get him to notice me in a special way? Not like just another person who joined??He's also already 2 ranks higher than me(Corporal)... I don't know if that matters... His Dad's actually in charge of all the equipment in CCF, so if I ever did get him to go out with me, his Dad would always give me weird looks, and it would be a little bit strange ... I see him in school a bit, too, so I really do like this guy ... what can I say/do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): Well, i was in a similar situation.Just on another side of battlefield :) I was that guy, from instructors 3 years ago, in a military camp. Was an instructor for a 8p team, with 7 girls and 1 guy in it.And there was a girl, she was a from medical University, she was there just to get 2 cred points, because of finishing camp-course. She was cute and lovely, she was polite and helpful to her comrades. imho she was one of the best in camp.I really like her. Well i was also scared about it, that its not allowed, to date her. I was struggling and unsure, and we were in different university's, so we could not met outside the camp time. And i just gave up, i don't really regret it, that's the way it was. I Left my uni, left camp and military carier. It was a personal crisis.I see you'r a teenager, so its not completely the same as we was.I will not give you an advice, just tell you a similar story of my self.I choose not to date her, was it right decision or not, who knows... , but you got to choose yourself, its up to you.and the only thing you v got to know it:Don't avoid temptation... by getting older, temptations will start to avoid you. ;)sorry for my bad English, it not my native.
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