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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, any guys out there who can tell me if this guy is attracted to me?Iam used to men just telling me straight that they like me, and have never had this problem before.He follows me around ,blushes profusely when he sees me, watches me all the time, laughs when I laugh, if there is music playing, he sings to me, gazes deeply into my eyes, and tries to make physical contact all the time (in a nice way).He also comes over to my area to say goodbye every evening and looks as though he wants to say something but then just blushes and accompanies me to the door and fidgets a lot.We have chatted about general things and he is always helping me out if I ask him to if he works near me(sometimes he does) I really like him too, but do not want to approach him unless I can be sure as we do work together although in different areas of the building. I know I would feel awkward if I said anything and then he tells me he's just being friendly. I don't want him to think I am vain or anything. My friend says I must be blind if I can't see it, but I have never had a lot of confidence about this kind of thing (with shy men), I am used to guys just telling me how they feel outright.can someone please tell me if they think it's a yes or no.
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reader, cnith  +, writes (2 May 2010):
 from what you said, sounds like a yes to me. If your friend can see it, why can't you? Just ask him straight out.
Keep it casual. Saying something like, do you want to go out for coffee/soda/tea (whatever) sometime?
or you could say, I really like you and I'd like to go out with you if that's OK? if not, that's fine too, I don't want to mess up our friendship. I thought I'd take a gamble but I'm cool if you're not into me.
Something like that. I'm sure you can make it more sophisticated.
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