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writes:My 6th wedding anniversary is coming up at the end of the month and I keep asking my husband what he wants to do or if he wants to get a sitter, and he just blows me off every time. I don't know if I should just get a sitter. I'm half tempted to just forget him and go out that night with my girlfriends. He has never done anything for the anniversaries, or many special occasions, and i want to leave this one up to him, however I know he isn't going to do anything and it is going to upset me. We have had a really really hard year, and I don't feel like making such a special event for some one who i don't feel will appreciate. I guess I feel he has a lot to make up for, and it seems like something he could do to start. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy sister got a hold of him and suggested to baby sit for the night. So we should be good this year. :- )
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (3 February 2010):
i would leave it up to him as if he wont appreciate it and is not interested then there is no point and neither of you will enjoy yourselves
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