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anonymous
writes: Hi there, I'm a 15 year old boy going on 16. And ever since i was lil, I've always had a strange feeling for guys. And till today i still do, and it's getting stringer. And it came to me that i might be bi-sexual or gay. Anyway. I have never been in a relationship or kissed a girl or a guy when i came to that conclusion,so i decided to crench my curiosity. The're this guy i was always attracted to..he's really cute, smart, kind and always makes me laugh. I wanted to be closer friends so i got to know him more. And one day we were alone at my house playing COD, he caught me staring at him and started questioning me saying.."Dude what's wrong , you've been like this for a long time, are you gay?" i didnt know what to tell him cause i didnt really know my self..so i just said i had enterest in guys. and that i liked him. This is when things went wrong...i reached over and kissed him, and he let me do it too. i dont know why he made out with me for that long. But then he got all cold on me...and left my house without saying anything. i tried to make him stay and tlk and apoligize but he just rushed right out. and now he wont tlk to me..or answer my phone calls for 4 days. I miss him. With all the things going on in my live( My life is not the happiest; far from it) he waas there for me. And i had really deep feelings for him, an i guess now i screwed it up..we can't even be friends?i don't know what to do.He's the only one i had. I loved him. Reply to this Question
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reader, alexis** +, writes (3 February 2010):
 im sorry your friend reacted that way. he was pry really surprised. my best friend growing up came &told me she was bi. it took me a min to take it all in, but i still loved her like a sis. i think if you give your friend some time then he will understand &still love you like good friends love eachother. im not sure he will feel the same for you, but there are so many great ppl out there.
you dont have to decide on being straight, gay, or bi right now. take the time you need. your friend pry just needs space to think bout his friend is feeling4 him. (gay or straight dating a friend is hard when it comes2 risking ur friendship).
have you told your family how you are feeling, or any other friends? they might be able2 help.
i hope i could help you or make you feel a lil better.
goodluck:)
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