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anonymous
writes:i want to know why i can't stop thinking bout my ex. i just recently moved back to NC, due to the fact i am now officially married. i didnt want to move back, i wanted him to move there but he didnt want to leave his life behind, so i left my life behind and came and got married. i thought i was over my ex, even when i was in TX i would think about him. hes my first love. i want my marriage to work, but i cant stop thinking bout my ex. i know marriage is a big step and why cant i move on, i know im dumb.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): .....Curiosity killed the cat.
yes you can think about the past but by doing so you are cheating your hb and yourself. you are holding back from having a fulfilled and blessed life......please make peace that your relationship did not work out with the ex, and move on.........TOTALLY and give your marriage your all. you have a chance at happiness......do not be your own worse enemy........make peace and move on..........good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not that im not over my ex cause i have no contact. its just curiousity and i wander...
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (4 February 2010):
 It is unfortunate you married someone knowing you still had feelings for your ex.
If there is any contact with him, you should cut it off immediately. Try to think about other things, like why you married your husband. And get into some activities/meet new people in NC.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Sorry, no original answer here.
http://www.2knowmyself.com/relationships_breakups/falling_in_love_with_someone_you_Cant_have/how_to_get_over_someone
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): i heard something similar like this on a radio show... the advice given is that when you think of him you get this excitement of what things used to be.. like urge, taboo or excitement... you should not act upon it and you have moved on with your husband... what you have now is reality.
so you should think of your husband and forget the ex
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