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26-29,
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writes:i started a new school this year, and meet a guy who took advantage of me. and we went months with out talking until we started talking again and became i would say really good friends with everything forgotten. then a time came were he expressed these feelings to me, that deeep down ik weren't true, but he got me to the point were i believed him. and then he got me to meet him at the park were again we did stuff. and i knew at that point i had to move on from him. so i stop talking to him for a bit until our frendship came back to normal. and i meet another guy (lets call him C and the one i did things with E) so c helped me get over E (and C just happend to be E best friend but no one knows what wwe did) so the other night i was on the phone with C and E was over. and E desited to talk to me on the phone and text me all this stuff how much i turn him on and all this crap. long story short he got me to sneak out of my house meet him somewhere and bring him back to my house at 12 on a monday night. i knew we were going to do stuff and i already felt extremey guilty for the fact that i was dating C and E was his "best friend" so we did stuff and we have gotten to know each other a lot. weve been through a lot together a lot. and we both decided to have sex for the first time. and now im stunk with this lode of guilt and feeling of wanting to die. i cheated on my boyfriend with a guy who contues to use me and treat me bad. but all that ive been through with E had made me come to the point were what ever he say i do and he knows that, he has me raped right around his finger. and it leaves me looking like the bad one. and a huge huge slut! plz dont tell me that im bad cuz i know i am and and i know what i slut i am and i cant change that and i cant change the fact that im only 14. but i just need help getting of this horrible path that im on, because im too young. i dont want to screw everything up more. what am i supposed to do from this point on?
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 First of all, you arent a slut so stop thinking of yourself in those terms. Your a young person who has been seeing someone who took advantage of you. How does he lead you into doing these things? Think about it a little. Are you scared he will tell if you dont go along with what he wants? Or are you rewarding his loyalty in not telling on you, by giving in to more of his suggestions? Either way the best thing to do is to stop seeing him straight away or you will really hurt your self esteem, your boyfriend and possibly end up pregnant. Imagine how your bf will feel if he finds out that you have been seeing his best friend behind his back. Next time this boy calls or text just ignore his suggestions. Say you dont want to see him anymore and try to avoid him. If you keep your distance, he cant talk you in to things you will regret. You have to start being firm about things because as you get older lots of guys will want sex. And you cant say yes to all of them! So start standing up for yourself now and say no.
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (3 February 2010):
hi you need to decide which one you want and let the other one go its not fair to string them both along and they might find out about each other and then you will lose both
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