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writes:I really like this person , im madly in love with him. We have both admitted how we both like each other but for the past couple weeks everythings been going downhill. We hardly talk to one another and when we get the chance hes always avoiding it. Im always putting the effort to talk to him and tell him i love him ALWAYS. I get nothing back but yet im still here hoping he will realize that i truly love him. Whenever i get the chance to ask him whats up he blanks me. I cry all night for him and i cant take it anymore what shall i do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 What should you do? FORGET him, that's what! Sorry to say, but you're wasting time and energy as well as losing sleep on this one. Its not worth it.Hopefully you will meet someone else sooner or later who WILL want to spend time with you and you'll get on together like a house on fire (so to speak!)
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (4 February 2010):
 It appears that he has lost interest, and doesn't want to work on bring the passion back. It's time to let go, and begin healing.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 CaringGuy is right...move on. This man isn't interested anymore and no amount of efforts on your part will make him change his mind. Save your dignity and self-respect and let him go. You don't want someone who doesn't want you.
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reader, Canewood +, writes (3 February 2010):
Moving on or scared becuse this is something real and not an image in his mind. But the reaction should be the same. Just leave him alone. Don't be rude. Don't prove a point. Just do your stuff. He will either come back or go away. Don't push him. If you are always starting it then you will always be starting it and will wake up one day angery that you are doing all the work. Save yourself the devorce. Take a deep breath and a cold shower. You can do this.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 February 2010):
You have to leave him well alone. He's avoiding you and blanking you, which is a coward's way of saying he's just not interested in you anymore. Time to move on, no matter how much it hurts.
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